[ 02-15-2004: Message edited by: Naimah ]
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Naimah probably says this to all the girls:
Man, that's harsh. An asshole I can understand. But a filthy asshole? And in all caps no less. That is just too harsh.
He just pointing out that Parce forgot to wipe after the last batch of hellfire wings. Kinda hard to get everything when your whole ass explodes.
And yes, I think you're a lying little bag of shit who will do just about anything for attention.
Does that answer your question?
[ 02-15-2004: Message edited by: King Parcelan ]
I view marriage as a sacred institution. As it stands, there are already too many grown adults rushing into it and cheapening it. It irates me to see attention-starved whelps like you throwing it around for some cheap publicity stunt.
So dig this: you're not ready for marriage. You're young, stupid and a liar; marriage is based on maturity, good decision and honesty. In short, you're diametrically opposed to marriage. You only think you're ready for it because you want to seem as though you have all those qualities, but your facade is as shallow as your claims.
There are younger people who can handle marriage. OtakuPenguin and Archer-Penguin I would trust with such a committment because they are completely devoted to each other and are very faithful, they know what they're getting themselves into. Hell, even those older couples such as Ja'Deth and Lyinar aren't rushing into it because they realize it's a serious thing and they want to think it out entirely.
You, however, are merely jealous of the attention they get and since one of your lies already fell through, you had to bring up another to try and trick people into thinking you're ready for it. And if it isn't an outright lie, you're decieving some stupid young girl for the sake of a little attention, which is even more despicable.
Now, I don't want to put all my weight on the notion that you're a filthy liar. Let's say you did propose. Let's say it wasn't for attention. It's still a stupid idea.
Despite how mature you think you are, you're still too young and ignorant for this. In the end, whether you want to admit it or not, you're just doing this to pretend you're an adult. True maturity would be you thinking it out at least somewhat.
You say it's one thing for me to pick on you for doing something stupid? Well, this is no different, my friend. It's a stupid idea that insults everyone who takes marriage seriously.
I have absolutely no problems kicking you now over something you'll be kicking yourself over later.
I roll my eyes, laugh, and thank every deity in existance I wasn't idiotic enough to actually go through with it and marry the guy. You may think you're an adult at seventeen, and believe with all your heart and soul you know what you want...
in five or ten years you'll look back and laugh at your arrogance. Trust those of us who can look back on it.
17 is still an age at which you believe that you are infallible, that your parents (or any other adult over the age of 30 in many cases) are demons who try to force you to do things that you dont want to do, and that you know everything there is to know about life.
27 is where you look back at the last 10 years and wonder "How the fuck could I have been so fucking stupid back then?"
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Tarquinn was listening to Cher while typing:
Hay, I'm going to marry a vampire@
And White Wolf shall be there to sue you.
You can be engaged for years and still not get married, you know. It's not as if they have to OMGGETMARRIEDINEIGHTORTENORSOMONTHSOMG
Parce, how do you know that zeke isn't as devoted to his girlfriend as much as AP and OP?
now, I'm not taking sides, because yes, i think 17 is too young to get married, but maybe the experience of being engaged for a while will change his mind.
in any case, it was his decision, and he was just sharing with us. Kinda like when you're drunk, parce.
so why don't we all sit down and have cheesecake?
but congratulations anyway zeke!
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Nobody really understood why Alucard wrote:
Just curious, but who are you Parce to decide when or when not this person (man whatever) is ready to marry? People can act entirely different on this internet message board then they do in Real Life and I don't see how you can judge this person based on what they post here.
Also curious who are you to judge parcelan, I agree with him that people who are 17 and are obviously as easily deluded as zeke shouldn't be getting married, I had a very close friend who wanted to get married young, and he did, and his life is ruined, oh woe is parcelan for using a harsh hand for the better good.
I suppose it makes me technically the better man for just keeping to myself and giggling as 2 more people remove themselves from the competative society by getting married and fucking their lives into the ground.
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CBTao had this to say about Duck Tales:
Also curious who are you to judge parcelan, I agree with him that people who are 17 and are obviously as easily deluded as zeke shouldn't be getting married, I had a very close friend who wanted to get married young, and he did, and his life is ruined, oh woe is parcelan for using a harsh hand for the better good.I suppose it makes me technically the better man for just keeping to myself and giggling as 2 more people remove themselves from the competative society by getting married and fucking their lives into the ground.
I'm not judging him. I'm asking a question.
I was married at 19 and it was a stupid mistake. You are going to do what you want to do because you are at the age where you know better than anyone else, no matter what they tell you.. believe me I know... I lived that age. I was smarter than ANYONE.
Anyway, I am happy that you are happy.. but I think that you can have a prolonged engagement. I have known people that have been engaged for years. There is nothing wrong with that.
I can easily say that he is not devoted as OP and AP because I know them far better. They've been together for quite some time whereas Zeke just sprung this up out of the blue, thus furthering my theory that he was hungry for some attention.
As for the whole "you can't judge him! Who are you to judge?" bit, it doesn't work in this scenario. I'm smarter and overall better than Zeke, as many would agree, and I think things through logically, thus giving me the right to point out that he does not. I also have experienced people like Xyrra and RIG on my side, thus lending me further credence.
And Ford, it's rather ironic that you accuse me of never being able to let things go when you're acting out upon me for an insult over a month ago. Bitterness doesn't suit you, my friend, but you carry it so well
I'm just gonna sit here and eat these here brownies, anyone care for one?
*Holds out a plate of brownies*
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King Parcelan had this to say about Tron:
I also have experienced people like Xyrra and RIG on my side, thus lending me further credence.
I have experience myself Parcelan. I guess I don't count?
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Rebel Nae had this to say about (_|_):
I have experience myself Parcelan. I guess I don't count?
You go without saying! Mentioning your name would have seemed extraneous
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King Parcelan was listening to Cher while typing:
You go without saying! Mentioning your name would have seemed extraneous
You always ignore me. I feel sad.
ANGST!
But since it is Zeke its ok.
Deth and I don't refrain from getting married from emotional unreadiness, however. But we're not at the ideal financial situation, or educational situation, that we wish to be in before we do something like that. Plus, we don't really see marriage as something that has to be done at all. We can love each other and care for each other, and we don't *have* to get married. Marriage is just a future icing on the cake.
I don't know what Parce said, if it was here on the boards or in IRC. As some of you may have noticed, I don't really post much anymore. I've been playing EQ too much. That said, I personally don't think Zeke is quite ready for something like this, but it's his life, and his choices. None of us here can make the decision for him, but we can offer helpful advice IF he asks for it.
Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin
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Elvish Crack Piper was listening to Cher while typing:
AFter the vampire thing zekes credibility and appearence of maturity are a little shot rakien.
Even if you assume that he got engaged for a scoobie snack it doesn't warrant declaring him filth in a wal-mart bathroom and tearing him to pieces 10 times over.
It's not something people hear about.
I dont know every detail of this incident, but if the last one is any proof of what zeke is like then he deserves a good parcing.
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`Doc's fortune cookie read:
Parcelan never lets anything go, ever...
Parcelan didn't start this thread.
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Derek enlisted the help of an infinite number of monkeys to write:
Parcelan didn't start this thread.
Ohhhhh snap!