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Zaza
I don't give a damn.
posted 08-23-2002 08:11:37 PM
quote:
This one time, at Lyinar Ka`Bael camp:
But wouldn't you think our group is being a little unreasonable? This is a group, yes, but it's not a clique. It's a messageboard, and a community. Shouldn't a community welcome new members as they are, rather than disliking them for trivial matters?

Who has shown open dislike? You seem to be the only one to have percieved hostility against the newbie, all I see is advice on how to fit in.

Like it or not, most people of this community appreciate good spelling, and while he might not be reamed for it, I'm not gonna read long jumbles of poor grammar, and neither is a good bunch of other people.

And why should I have to change that, just to adapt to this person?

Moffles
Pancake
posted 08-23-2002 08:15:35 PM
Hey? You know something? I'm looking at this thread and slowly realizing that people are becoming more and more angst-ridden as this goes along! Soon our heads shall explode with woe! THIS can only mean one thing...

*Gives everybody PIE!*

Pie > all angst and woes!

Yes, I know this is old and has been abused numerous times. But every time somebody does it, it works.

"Got some dark desire? Love to play with fire? Why not let it rip? Live a little bit!"
Vorbis
Vend-A-Goat
posted 08-23-2002 08:17:24 PM
Any potential dislike that could be garnered from this thread most likely comes after Slasher's post of, to paraphrase, "Sorry, I don't see why I should post this way. I'm not going to change, you're just going to have to accept me as I am," and only because it can be, and oft is, considered impolite. It also showed his character, which obviously didn't work well with the community as your claims of hostility would show.
Black
The Outlaw Torn
posted 08-23-2002 08:17:28 PM
quote:
Moffles thought about the meaning of life:
blahblah... it works.
Bzzzt, wrong.


Time was never on my side.
So on I wait my whole lifetime.

Moffles
Pancake
posted 08-23-2002 08:20:56 PM
quote:
Black Mage, after being too lazy to fully copy my post, sez:
Bzzzt, wrong.

*Promptly pulls out a small piece of paper and begins scribbling while quietly screaming "FUCK!" in a really tense voice*

now look, you've scared Slasher away. Buncha goddamn hippies.

"Got some dark desire? Love to play with fire? Why not let it rip? Live a little bit!"
Tier
posted 08-23-2002 08:21:38 PM
quote:
Lyinar Ka`Bael stumbled drunkenly to the keyboard and typed:
it's not a clique.

You're right. This is a community of many cliques of which most share one opinion: "aol speek" must die.

[ 08-23-2002: Message edited by: Asha'man ]

Lyinar Ka`Bael
Are you looking at my pine tree again?
posted 08-23-2002 08:30:24 PM
But Vorbis, isn't it also impolite of us to be intolerant of his typing as that is his way of life?


Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin

Vorbis
Vend-A-Goat
posted 08-23-2002 08:37:49 PM
quote:
We were all impressed when Lyinar Ka`Bael wrote:
But Vorbis, isn't it also impolite of us to be intolerant of his typing as that is his way of life?

If he's ESL, then maybe it would impolite. However, it is more impolite to demand that a community conform to you than a community giving, for the most part, kind suggestions on how to better fit in.

We're not asking him to be a different person, we're simply telling him that he can either be considerate to his audience and make an honest attempt or accept that he will be ignored because it is too much of an inconvenience.

One must remember, it is not job of the group to accept the individual, it is the individuals job to make themselves acceptable. It's the reason one must wear clothes outside - sure, being a nudist may be a way of life, but it's not the norm for society.

My post was far too rambling for my tastes. Parcelan was able to achieve the same spirit of my post in more clear terms.

[ 08-23-2002: Message edited by: Vorbis of Pie ]

King Parcelan
Chicken of the Sea
posted 08-23-2002 08:38:35 PM
It seems to me that we're blowing this a little out of proportion.

A method of typing is not a way of life. A religion is. A philosophy is. Not a way of typing, in my opinion at least.

We're not forcing him to change religions or anything drastic. We're not even forcing him to do anything. We're simply suggesting ways of becoming accepted by the group.

Just as he has the right to not care about grammar and spelling, we have the right to ignore his posts. And many of us will.

All we gave was a simple suggestion that if he chooses to not conform to the group, the group will not conform to him.

It doesn't strike me as unreasonable at all.

Khyron
Hello, my mushy friend...
posted 08-23-2002 08:46:05 PM
quote:
King Parcelan had this to say about Reading Rainbow:
It seems to me that we're blowing this a little out of proportion.

A method of typing is not a way of life. A religion is. A philosophy is. Not a way of typing, in my opinion at least.

We're not forcing him to change religions or anything drastic. We're not even forcing him to do anything. We're simply suggesting ways of becoming accepted by the group.

Just as he has the right to not care about grammar and spelling, we have the right to ignore his posts. And many of us will.

All we gave was a simple suggestion that if he chooses to not conform to the group, the group will not conform to him.

It doesn't strike me as unreasonable at all.


Here here!

Moffles
Pancake
posted 08-23-2002 08:47:09 PM
quote:
King Parcelan declared jihad with peanut butter after typing:

It seems to me that we're blowing this a little out of proportion.
A method of typing is not a way of life. A religion is. A philosophy is. Not a way of typing, in my opinion at least.

We're not forcing him to change religions or anything drastic. We're not even forcing him to do anything. We're simply suggesting ways of becoming accepted by the group.

Just as he has the right to not care about grammar and spelling, we have the right to ignore his posts. And many of us will.

All we gave was a simple suggestion that if he chooses to not conform to the group, the group will not conform to him.

It doesn't strike me as unreasonable at all.


...
Indeed.

"Got some dark desire? Love to play with fire? Why not let it rip? Live a little bit!"
Lyinar Ka`Bael
Are you looking at my pine tree again?
posted 08-23-2002 08:49:19 PM
But that is his philosophy while on the internet, though. He doesn't see the need to type out everything. I don't believe we should bend over backwards, but isn't not yielding at all a little unreasonable?


Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin

Trent
Smurfberry Moneyshot
posted 08-23-2002 08:50:41 PM
If Slasher insists upon typing in the shorthand AOL manner he has shown a preference for, I simply will not read his posts.

I'm not denying him anything, I'm not telling him how to type. I fail to see how Slasher has been raked over coals, flamed or even harshly treated by anyone.

Nice, non-hostile advice was given on how to be accepted into this community. I don't think the suggestions were presented as a demand. Telling him he would be ignored or be an outcast to the majority is only the truth, it wasn't a threat or a flame.

It is my belief this is a silly debate.

Have a nice day.

King Parcelan
Chicken of the Sea
posted 08-23-2002 08:51:50 PM
I disagree. I'd say we are yielding quite a bit.

Not yielding at all would be us flaming him relentlessly and saying: "You are not welcome unless you type properly!"

As it stands, we welcome him, but tell him that he will not be truly accepted unless he types in a manner pleasing to all the members.

We're not bending over backwards, but we're certainly not being unreasonable.

Lyinar Ka`Bael
Are you looking at my pine tree again?
posted 08-23-2002 08:55:12 PM
Point taken on the yielding, but I still disagree that we should even make an issue of how he types. I think if we develop a more tolerant attitude toward it, it could only be for the better.

Haven't there been people here that type bad just because we have a reputation for going down heavy on it? Without that reputation, they would have no need to not type in a grammatically correct manner.


Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin

King Parcelan
Chicken of the Sea
posted 08-23-2002 09:02:04 PM
Well, just as it is a 'philosophy' for him to type the way he wants to, it is a 'philosophy' for us to ignore it.

At this point, it seems more like we are agreeing to disagree. He can type the way he wants to, but he shouldn't expect us to read it.

There is no need to develop more tolerant behavior towards it when we are quite tolerant as it is. We do not flame him for the way he speaks, we just do not acknowledge him.

I, for one, refuse to budge on the fact that if someone wishes to speak he should speak properly. It is a matter of principle to me.

Vorbis
Vend-A-Goat
posted 08-23-2002 09:06:06 PM
quote:
When the babel fish was in place, it was apparent Lyinar Ka`Bael said:
Point taken on the yielding, but I still disagree that we should even make an issue of how he types. I think if we develop a more tolerant attitude toward it, it could only be for the better.

Haven't there been people here that type bad just because we have a reputation for going down heavy on it? Without that reputation, they would have no need to not type in a grammatically correct manner.


I believe it was Slasher that made it an issue, which it can be construed that he sought out to make it an issue. Even Parce, who's had a reputation for being hard against poor-spellers was more than tolerant.

There were merely kindly suggestions that spelling and grammar are regarded as good whereas no one takes kindly to lack thereof - especially if it is purposefully done.

Infact, if one were to be very anal about finding the first "flame", it would have come from Lyinar or Slasher - all though neither were really all that "flameful".

Overall, I'd say we've been perfectly tolerant.

Lyinar Ka`Bael
Are you looking at my pine tree again?
posted 08-23-2002 09:30:11 PM
Seems that way, Parce.

I'm glad we were all able to have a civil discussion in this thread without it turning into a flamewar. It's been quite enjoyable, and I'd continue it, but I have a GURPS game starting soon and couldn't give it the sort of attention it deserves.

So we'll leave it there, and not spoil the pleasantness.

[ 08-23-2002: Message edited by: Lyinar Ka`Bael ]


Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin

King Parcelan
Chicken of the Sea
posted 08-23-2002 09:32:18 PM
Indeed
Liam
Swims in Erotic Circles
posted 08-23-2002 10:12:10 PM
Whoa. You guys have surprised me.


lololo Humor disclaimer, or a "Don't flame me because I said something stupid disclaimer. You know what? This is a love disclaimer. That's much better.

Lyinar Ka`Bael
Are you looking at my pine tree again?
posted 08-23-2002 10:23:28 PM
You aren't the only one. But it's a good sort of surprise.

Not like waking up and finding out all your underwear has been in the freezer all night or something.


Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin

Liam
Swims in Erotic Circles
posted 08-23-2002 10:24:51 PM
I literally fell asleep in a deep freezer once. No kidding.
Lyinar Ka`Bael
Are you looking at my pine tree again?
posted 08-23-2002 10:25:59 PM
Do I even want to know how you managed that?


Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin

BeauChan
Objects in sigpic may be hammier than they appear
posted 08-23-2002 10:36:22 PM
just to make a point:

yo, wutz up slasher-bro. we'z don't need no AOL types commin round 'ere to mess up da bords or ne thign, ya know? so usin da ed.it buttin helps.

Now that I've finished my extremely hard on the eyes writing, welcome to the boards slasher. I hope you got the jist of my small statement. have fun posting

Endured by EC for over 7 years and counting...
Liam
Swims in Erotic Circles
posted 08-23-2002 10:40:12 PM
quote:
Lyinar Ka`Bael had this to say about dark elf butts:
Do I even want to know how you managed that?


Well you see, there was this sleep-over party and there were no spaces left in my room, neighboring kitchen, and I think the bathroom tub was occupied. Logical decision was the deepfreeze.

Lyinar Ka`Bael
Are you looking at my pine tree again?
posted 08-23-2002 10:42:06 PM
Did the floor not come into consideration?


Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin

Liam
Swims in Erotic Circles
posted 08-23-2002 10:43:14 PM
Well I was 12, and It was kinda a dare.

And the floors were lined with sleeping bags.

Trust me, at the time, it made perfect sense.

MorbId
Pancake
posted 08-23-2002 10:43:55 PM
I would think it'd be easy to sleep once the hypothermia set in.
BeauChan
Objects in sigpic may be hammier than they appear
posted 08-23-2002 10:44:38 PM
quote:
Praetor Liam's fortune cookie read:
I literally fell asleep in a deep freezer once. No kidding.

brrrrr

Endured by EC for over 7 years and counting...
Lyinar Ka`Bael
Are you looking at my pine tree again?
posted 08-23-2002 10:47:10 PM
Well that makes sense.

I was just a bit confused.

It sounded liked you'd gone from bed-tub-kitchen counter straight to deepfreeze or something


Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin

very important poster
a sweet title
posted 08-23-2002 10:58:24 PM
quote:
Lyinar Ka`Bael spewed forth this undeniable truth:
Point taken on the yielding, but I still disagree that we should even make an issue of how he types. I think if we develop a more tolerant attitude toward it, it could only be for the better.

Haven't there been people here that type bad just because we have a reputation for going down heavy on it? Without that reputation, they would have no need to not type in a grammatically correct manner.


Look at practically any other message board out there. Most of them don't care about grammar and whatnot (like Slasher). Nearly every single one of aforementioned boards type in AOL sp34k. I don't know if you just never frequent other message boards than EC, but your logic doesn't work in the real world. Unfortunately. :/

hey
Liam
Swims in Erotic Circles
posted 08-23-2002 11:06:40 PM
quote:
Giantt had this to say about Captain Planet:
Look at practically any other message board out there. Most of them don't care about grammar and whatnot (like Slasher). Nearly every single one of aforementioned boards type in AOL sp34k. I don't know if you just never frequent other message boards than EC, but your logic doesn't work in the real world. Unfortunately. :/


Dude, the arguement's over, we're being cool and friendly with Lyinar again. Where have you been? geez.

Il Buono
You see, in this world there's two kinds of people, my friend.
posted 08-23-2002 11:21:57 PM
This post serves a purpose, but only for I.

[ 08-23-2002: Message edited by: D© ]

"Those with loaded guns, and those who dig. You dig."
very important poster
a sweet title
posted 08-23-2002 11:23:02 PM
quote:
Check out the big brain on Praetor Liam!

Dude, the arguement's over, we're being cool and friendly with Lyinar again. Where have you been? geez.

hey
Goma
Pancake
posted 08-24-2002 12:42:20 AM
quote:
When the babel fish was in place, it was apparent Praetor Liam said:
Well I was 12, and It was kinda a dare.

And the floors were lined with sleeping bags.

Trust me, at the time, it made perfect sense.


I was there =/ He really did sleep in there. I dont know about the whole night, but he was in there for a fair amount of time.

Zebsis Morbidfist
Pancake
posted 08-24-2002 12:47:44 AM
Rar.

This was not a test.

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