Personally, I'm mildly regretful, because I did it for the wrong reasons. I convinced myself that sex was nothing more than physical pleasure, and I jumped headfirst without another thought. It was enjoyable at the time, and I only started to regret it later, because I did not really love the girl, but rather we only liked eachother. The thing is, I'm not sure if I would change anything if I had the chance.
Please try to keep this thread at least a little mature, I thnk that most of us CAN behave like adults if we choose to, and this is a topic that deserves mature discussion rather than just comic remarks and the like.
So: Do you regret your first?
No, Really. Bite me.
And I will be one until the day I get married. Im not planning to have sex until I can take care of a child, because there is no guarantee that one wont come out of having sex, no matter how much protection you use 
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Falaanla Marr wrote this then went back to looking for porn:
Im 21 years old, and a virgin.And I will be one until the day I get married. Im not planning to have sex until I can take care of a child, because there is no guarantee that one wont come out of having sex, no matter how much protection you use
That's probably the most sobet thing I've heard all day, but I'm not that strong or logical. Sadly though, most people just want to get their rocks off, without giving too much thought to the consequences.
I applaud your forethought and resolve.
No, Really. Bite me.
No regrets, only one or two bad experiences.
*Shrug.* I tend to consider it a precautionary measure more than anything. I've come too close to a similar situation to not pay attention to that.
No, I'm not kidding.
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Bajah had this to say about pies:
I was raped.No, I'm not kidding.
Please tell me that the person is rotting in jail right now.
No, Really. Bite me.
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Nobody really understood why Sergeant Blindy wrote:
I don't regret it. I regret loosing it as young as I did, but I don't regret doing it.
Argh!!! One 'o' in losing, dangit!!!
Sorry for the grammar-whoreness, but I've been proof-reading dozens of papers this week as a substitute writing assistant, and this stupid error is driving me freakazoid!
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Azrael Heavenblade wrote this stupid crap:
Argh!!! One 'o' in losing, dangit!!!Sorry for the grammar-whoreness, but I've been proof-reading dozens of papers this week as a substitute writing assistant, and this stupid error is driving me freakazoid!
You looser.
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Burger was naked while typing this:
Please tell me that the person is rotting in jail right now.
I would hope so, but it's not likely. The concept of "males being raped" is so foreign to most people, they laugh at the idea. Though it is far less rare than you'd think.
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Falaanla Marr had this to say about Robocop:
Im 21 years old, and a virgin.And I will be one until the day I get married. Im not planning to have sex until I can take care of a child, because there is no guarantee that one wont come out of having sex, no matter how much protection you use
Same here. I don't believe in abortion, so if I were to get pregnant...eh, that would be really bad.
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Suddar had this to say about Optimus Prime:
I'm getting the impression that everything makes you think about this stuff, huh?
Yep, I'm a teenaged male with hormones running through my veins and a healthy sex drive. I think of other things, but I think that sex is an interesting topic for mature discussion.
No, Really. Bite me.
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Led had this to say about Duck Tales:
Almost raped twice
They lost permanent use of their limbs didn't they?
1. Person was drunk or stoned.. Generally I consider having sex with someone drunk or stoned about the same as rape even if the other person is wanting, cause they probably are not aware what they are doing.
2. The person is well rather unhinged. Sorry I like to keep crazy people away from me--- former coworker was emotionally unbalanced and leapt from on "relationship" to another, relationship is in quotes cause sleeping with someone for 2 weeks does not make a relationship, completely blew her mind someone would turn her down, O well she later went on to sleep with the butcher and produce guys both over 50 years old (she is the same age as me) and rumor always had it she was shacking up with the chick in produce.
Ohhos!
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Led spewed forth this undeniable truth:
By that reply I am thinking it is more than the use of thier limbs that they lost.
If I lose it, I hope it's to someone I spend the rest of my life with, but if not, it's not going to ruin my life or anything.
I think the key is to "get your rocks off" in the appropriate manner beforehand, so the urge isn't there as often.
Eh. I dislike these kinds of topics.
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Shazorx / Modrakien had this to say about Reading Rainbow:
While 'WTF was I thinking?' does describe it pretty accurately, I still don't regret it, I'd rather get the practice at 18 than at 30 or whatever.
Yup, that's me all the way.
Thinking about your posts
(and billing you for it) since 2001
But I'm much happier where I am now in my life. 
Virginity is overrated. I can understand Fal perfectly, though (whoa).
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Xyrra's unholy Backstreet Boys obsession manifested in:But I'm much happier where I am
New York is no place to be happy! Hurry up and get south. 
now I'm 22 and we're married
Though, I regret loosing it to who I did, but I don't regret doing it.
I've never subscribed to the idea that if it feels good you shouldn't do it. When you're a virgin, you view sex entirely differently than you do afterwards. I wondered, "Whoa. Why did I think sex was the end-all, be-all of human existence?" Yes, sex is important. But your first time isn't the best time. You have little to no idea what you're doing. It's certainly not very enjoyable. It's more about experience than anything else. I don't regret waiting until I had been dating my girlfriend for a year, I don't regret the circumstances under which it occured, and I don't regret how it's changed our relationship. In fact, the new dynamic in introduced (as well as the one it got rid of) has made our relationship so, soooo much better.
I think the ultimate point is that you should bust your cherry on your own terms. Do it when you're ready, willing, and able, and the other party feels the same way. It's only as important as you make it.
And remember, trim the verge!
Under capitalism, man exploits man. Under communism, it's just the opposite. - John Kenneth Galbraith
Came close, but we didn't have condoms so I made him stop
whatever.
Came close, but I won't give the reasons why in public.
And no, it has nothing to do with Matt. That ain't gonna happen.
I'm not mocking you, just using your wording
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Nobody really understood why Kegwen wrote:
I've never had sex.Came close, but I won't give the reasons why in public.
And no, it has nothing to do with Matt. That ain't gonna happen.
I'm not mocking you, just using your wording
okay!
