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Topic: Loss of virginity discussion
Y.O.T.C
No longer a Towel Girl
posted 04-14-2003 05:36:46 PM
I'm 100% virgin, never even kissed a girl.. Oh yea... I'm pathetic.
Alleria Qui'farush
Chica!
posted 04-14-2003 06:09:21 PM
quote:
Falaanla Marr was naked while typing this:
Im 21 years old, and a virgin.

And I will be one until the day I get married. Im not planning to have sex until I can take care of a child, because there is no guarantee that one wont come out of having sex, no matter how much protection you use


You're my idol now. I do not know anyone who's kept their virginity for that long.

I've made a promise to myself to keep my virginity until after I graduate from college because due to the extreme paranoia I have, I do not want to deal with the fear of pregnancy while still being educated. It also helps me because incase if I do get pregnant, by that time I should be able to help raise the child on my own if the partner I had decides to leave. If I do get pregnant, I'm not planning on getting an abortion.

Gydyon
Yes, I am a lawyer. No you can't sue them for that. Shut up, or I'll have your legs broken.
posted 04-14-2003 06:18:28 PM
quote:
Alleria Qui'farush's fortune cookie read:
You're my idol now. I do not know anyone who's kept their virginity for that long.

*coughs politely*

Gydyon
Evercrest Lawyer

Thinking about your posts
(and billing you for it) since 2001

Mog
not really a mmembe rof tis boered
posted 04-14-2003 06:26:15 PM
Still a virgin, never even bean kissed, im such a ladys man aint i!


Im kinda anxious to loose it, but i want it to be with soeone specail who i care alot about, but then again, not for any religious reasons or thinking virgity is specail or anthign, but just becosue i think the first time is prolly ery special and i dotn wnat ot waste ti with anyone, even thgouh i priolly woudl if that cance arised, bt thats jsut becoseu im a horny bastard


Regret calamities if you can thereby help the sufferer; if not, attend to your own work and allready the evil begins to be repaired
- Self Rreliance
Snugglits
I LIKE TO ABUSE THE ALERT MOD BUTTON AND I ENJOY THE FLAVOR OF SWEET SWEET COCK.
posted 04-14-2003 06:27:40 PM
I think you can probably guess for me.

I'll probably end up keeping it for a while since I'm pretty much invisible in real life.

I'm glad Data found that so funny!

EDIT: That came out a little harsher than I meant it, so I changed it completely!

[ 04-14-2003: Message edited by: Where's Waisz? ]

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Talonus
Loner
posted 04-14-2003 06:28:31 PM
Don't regret losing mine or when I lost it.

For me, the first time was quite pleasurable I'd say also. The mishaps and such only made it more fun IMHO. I guess I was lucky like that. It wasn't the best I've had and, like Karnaj said, I thought "Whoa. Why did I think sex was the end-all, be-all of human existence?", but it was still fun.

Vorbis
Vend-A-Goat
posted 04-14-2003 06:34:29 PM
quote:
Gydfather had this to say about pies:
*coughs politely*


You're my idol, but not solely for that reason!

Burger
BANNED!
posted 04-14-2003 06:40:49 PM
Wow, Congratulations board, one of my threads lasted over a page without turning into a flame war or meandering way off topic.

I'm going to have to agree with those that said that sex is not the most earth shattering experience, but it is a way to grow closer to the one you love, and it can be very much fun for both (all) parties.

Bite me.

No, Really. Bite me.

Steven Steve
posted 04-14-2003 06:43:27 PM
We'll see
"Absolutely NOTHING [will stop me from buying Diablo III]. I will buy it regardless of what they do."
- Grawbad, Battle.net forums

"Don't want to sound like a fanboy, but I am with you. I'll buy it for sure, it's just a matter of for how long I will be playing it..."
- Silvast, Battle.net forums

Timpofee
Mancake
posted 04-14-2003 06:54:32 PM
Lost it at 16... regret i dont remember her name..
didnt care as a kid.. now it would have mment alot more to me
Chalk it up to experience..
Azizza
VANDERSHANKED
posted 04-14-2003 07:41:39 PM
The oldest virgin I have ever known was 38. She was a very angry person. Always snapping at people, etc. Amazing that once she started having sex she mellowed out.

Sex is a part of being human. Yes we attach emotional meaning to it. But on a physical level our bodies are meant to do it.

"Pacifism is a privilege of the protected"
Razor
posted 04-14-2003 07:52:07 PM
Let's just say I am very sorry I lost it. too much bad stuff around it.
Astronomy is a passion...
Engineering is a love...
My job isn't a job, it's my career, and I love every minute of it: Observatory Superintendent
Aury
My hair is a deadly weapon
posted 04-14-2003 07:53:05 PM
Given I was raped when I was ten, Sex holds little if any emotional meaning to me. It's all about me getting my rocks off. I wish it wasn't like that, but, alas, it is. :\


/shrug

Valso the WhiteDragon
Pancake
posted 04-14-2003 08:31:08 PM
I do not regret having sex. I think 13 was a little young, but I felt (what little you can actually feel at that age) something and it was not forced at all. Infact she was more of the leader.. lol.

The next time (I had sex) was from 17-19, with my 2 year girlfriend. Only bad thing about having sex at 13, is telling your girlfriend a few years later. (None of this really matters once outta high school though). Anyways, she was in fear of pregnacy and such, but had sex anyways. (Well, after we had a chance to talk about it and overcome any fears and paranoia that both of us had). It was great, however, it also changed our relationship. I still wonder if life together went down hill from that point on. Even though I did want to marry her, we she broke up with me, and thus, I am not looking to have sex anytime soon.

One last thing, I felt extreamly emotional and close to her because of sex. Something that I did not feel before it, because of which, now that we are sepearted, I feel I left a part of my heart behind.

Oh, in the end, I do not regret because at the time it was with someone that I "loved."

[ 04-14-2003: Message edited by: whitedragon ]

Ferret
Poing! Poing!
posted 04-14-2003 08:36:40 PM
Still a virgin. Not that important to me.
Sean
posted 04-14-2003 08:47:44 PM
quote:
Still a virgin. Not that important to me.

Despite how much I talk about it, getting laid isn't the only thing on my mind.

Just makes for funny jokes.

A Kansas City Shuffle is when everybody looks right, you go left.

It's not something people hear about.

Jajahotep
Vader to Deth's Obi-wan
posted 04-14-2003 09:17:02 PM
Hmm..

Do I regret it? Naw..not really. I did it for the wrong reasons (trying to keep the guy..damn where was my afternoon special to tell me not to do it for those reasons?!). I'm kind of glad to have gotten the awkwardness out of the way.

Koosh Man
Pancake
posted 04-14-2003 09:20:01 PM
What D said.

Oh, hell, who am I kidding, we all know I have more pent up sexual frustration than any two people here combined.

Monica
I've got an owie on my head :(
posted 04-14-2003 09:32:00 PM
For the most part I just have two rules in regards to my virginity:

  • No sex while I'm in school/college/whatever. Seen too many friends/acquaintances/etc freaking out about pregnancy scares and STD scares. I know 2 girls who had to put their lives on hold so they could drop out of school and have babies. If I drop out, I am pretty much stuck here. To me, that is not acceptable.

  • It's gonna have to be somebody that there's a very good chance I'm gonna be with them for the rest of my life. Will I wait until marriage? Gotta be honest... probably not. The strong possibility of marriage has to be there, though. Rumor has it, sex changes things, ALOT. What if we waited until marriage and then afterward things got really weird and - for one reason or another - I ended up not wanting to be with them anymore? And the first time is usually uncomfortable for girls, even painful. Maybe it's not like that for all girls, but I've gotten the distinct impression that it's extremely common. I don't really want to spend my wedding night holding my crotch, whining about how bad it hurts.

    I do think the so-called 'importance' of the "first time" is stressed WAY WAY WAY too much. Obviously if 9 out of 10 girls say it hurts like a bitch, then it can't be that great.

    [ 04-14-2003: Message edited by: Veruca Salt ]

  • Rodent King
    Stabbed in the Eye
    posted 04-14-2003 09:41:39 PM
    Came really close once, but stopped for religious reasons.

    Does oral count? I've had some people argue with me that it's a form of soddomy; so I'm not really a virgin to some people.

    My inner child is bigger than my outer adult.
    Burger
    BANNED!
    posted 04-14-2003 09:47:54 PM
    quote:
    The logic train ran off the tracks when Rodent King said:
    Came really close once, but stopped for religious reasons.

    Does oral count? I've had some people argue with me that it's a form of soddomy; so I'm not really a virgin to some people.


    we'll save that question for tomorrow night.

    Bite me.

    No, Really. Bite me.

    Valso the WhiteDragon
    Pancake
    posted 04-14-2003 10:06:59 PM
    quote:
    Rodent King had this to say about John Romero:
    Came really close once, but stopped for religious reasons.

    Does oral count? I've had some people argue with me that it's a form of soddomy; so I'm not really a virgin to some people.


    "Chasing Amy"

    [ 04-14-2003: Message edited by: whitedragon ]

    Lyinar Ka`Bael
    Are you looking at my pine tree again?
    posted 04-14-2003 10:11:01 PM
    Don't regret it. I was sweet on the guy for 3 years. Sex isn't a big part of my life anyway.


    Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin

    Zaza
    I don't give a damn.
    posted 04-14-2003 10:11:44 PM
    Don't regret it, or losing it early... it's fun, and really great with someone you love, but it's not the most amazing thing in the world.
    Burger
    BANNED!
    posted 04-14-2003 10:13:53 PM
    quote:
    How.... Lyinar Ka`Bael.... uughhhhhh:
    Don't regret it. I was sweet on the guy for 3 years. Sex isn't a big part of my life anyway.

    If you listen carefully, you can hear Deth softly weeping off in the corner.

    Bite me.

    No, Really. Bite me.

    Gydyon
    Yes, I am a lawyer. No you can't sue them for that. Shut up, or I'll have your legs broken.
    posted 04-14-2003 10:14:29 PM
    quote:
    We were all impressed when Vorbo Goatboy wrote:
    You're my idol, but not solely for that reason!


    Awwwwwwwwwwwww!

    Gydyon
    Evercrest Lawyer

    Thinking about your posts
    (and billing you for it) since 2001

    Lyinar Ka`Bael
    Are you looking at my pine tree again?
    posted 04-14-2003 10:15:40 PM
    quote:
    Burger impressed everyone with:
    If you listen carefully, you can hear Deth softly weeping off in the corner.

    *laughs*

    Deth knows how to push my buttons. And maybe it will be a bigger part once he's actually here.


    Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin

    Falaanla Marr
    I AM HOT CHIX
    posted 04-14-2003 10:19:05 PM
    quote:
    Gydfather had this to say about Knight Rider:
    *coughs politely*



    YOU ALWAYS GET TO FEEL SPECIAL!

    Lemme feel special for once

    Fal runs off and cries

    Burger
    BANNED!
    posted 04-14-2003 10:24:19 PM
    quote:
    Falaanla Marr had this to say about Punky Brewster:

    YOU ALWAYS GET TO FEEL SPECIAL!

    Lemme feel special for once

    Fal runs off and cries


    I'm special! If you really want to, I suppose you could feel me.


    BACK ON TOPIC!!!!

    Bite me.

    No, Really. Bite me.

    OtakuPenguin
    Peels like a tangerine, but is juicy like an orange.
    posted 04-14-2003 10:24:29 PM
    Nope, don't regret it at all
    ..:: This Is The Sound Of Settling ::..
    Jajahotep
    Vader to Deth's Obi-wan
    posted 04-14-2003 10:30:57 PM
    quote:
    YOU ALWAYS GET TO FEEL SPECIAL!

    Lemme feel special for once

    Fal runs off and cries


    You're special to me! *gives chase*

    Drysart
    Pancake
    posted 04-14-2003 10:58:49 PM
    Regret?

    Hell no. Nobody wishes on their deathbed that during their life they'd made love less.

    Gydyon
    Yes, I am a lawyer. No you can't sue them for that. Shut up, or I'll have your legs broken.
    posted 04-14-2003 11:03:00 PM
    quote:
    Falaanla Marr attempted to be funny by writing:

    YOU ALWAYS GET TO FEEL SPECIAL!

    Lemme feel special for once

    Fal runs off and cries


    omg i sorry

    And then Burger hit on you......

    Gydyon
    Evercrest Lawyer

    Thinking about your posts
    (and billing you for it) since 2001

    Rodent King
    Stabbed in the Eye
    posted 04-14-2003 11:05:07 PM
    quote:
    Drysart's account was hax0red to write:
    Regret?

    Hell no. Nobody wishes on their deathbed that during their life they'd made love less.


    People dying of STD's do.

    My inner child is bigger than my outer adult.
    Nicole
    The hip-hop-happiest bunny in all of marshmallow woods
    posted 04-14-2003 11:13:05 PM
    Still a virgin, though not for lack of opportunity.

    Mostly due to distance. I want my first time to be with someone I love, someone I can look back on... and hopefully forward to... and smile at the thought. Right now, there's only one person who fits that criteria, and he kinda lives in California. So... more like distance. Plus... I'd feel like I was betraying him. I've screwed up often enough to know what it feels like and know I don't want to go there voluntarily again... so I'm keeping it for now, even though my groin wants to jump all over everything. (now THERE'S a scary mental image. A little shop of horrors-esque man-eating plant scene, except it's not a plant, it's a... yeah.)



    I just spent
    my last cent
    purchasing this poverty.

    Beta Tested
    Pancake
    posted 04-14-2003 11:17:55 PM
    I kind of regrett doing it with the person I did, but I don't really wish I hadn't. Our relationship went to hell in a handbasket, but hey, it probably would have even if we didn't. She had issues

    It was fun, something I still think back on fondly, and good experiance for those who might come in the future.

    What's this thing do?
    That would be sooo cool if it wasn't going to hurt us.
    Melphina's Magelo
    Falaanla Marr
    I AM HOT CHIX
    posted 04-14-2003 11:19:10 PM
    quote:
    Gydfather had this to say about Reading Rainbow:
    omg i sorry

    And then Burger hit on you......


    Can I hit on you?

    Ares
    posted 04-14-2003 11:20:31 PM
    Just turned 18 and still a virgin. Hmm.. And that test on thespark.com said I'd lose it at age 16 in a hotel room.

    HAH!

    Mr. Crabs
    Pancake
    posted 04-14-2003 11:25:22 PM
    quote:
    Drysart had this to say about (_|_):
    Regret?

    Hell no. Nobody wishes on their deathbed that during their life they'd made love less.


    Yeah I'm on to you Drysart!? Fan of the movie, 100 Girls?

    There's a King on a throne with his eyes torn out.
    There's a Blind Man looking for a shadow of doubt.
    There's a Rich Man sleeping on a golden bed.
    There's a Skeleton choking on a crust of bread.
    Tristan
    Vidi, vici, veni.
    Nae's Stooge
    posted 04-14-2003 11:45:04 PM
    what would you define as "losing your virginity", exactly?
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