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Topic: Would you kiss on a first date?
Alleria Qui'farush
Chica!
posted 07-16-2003 11:36:45 PM
Why or why not, and if so, is it really worth it?
Aury
My hair is a deadly weapon
posted 07-16-2003 11:38:01 PM
Sure, why not? If you're really into the person, offering a smooch is a good way to tell if the feeling's mutual.
Pvednes
Lynched
posted 07-16-2003 11:38:03 PM
Yes, as it is fun.
Koosh Man
Pancake
posted 07-16-2003 11:38:08 PM
I don't see why not.
Trent
Smurfberry Moneyshot
posted 07-16-2003 11:38:24 PM
Yeah.

It's a kiss, not like a full blown make out heavy petting hump your leg thing...

Is it?

Koosh Man
Pancake
posted 07-16-2003 11:39:01 PM
quote:
Everyone wondered WTF when Not Trent wrote:
Yeah.

It's a kiss, not like a full blown make out heavy petting hump your leg thing...

Is it?


I don't see why not there, either.

Tegadil
Queen of the Smoofs
posted 07-16-2003 11:39:18 PM
Of course.

But it would have to be the Kiss of Death.

Delphi Aegis
Delphi. That's right. The oracle. Ask me anything. Anything about your underwear.
posted 07-16-2003 11:39:56 PM
Sure. On the cheek.
Nwist, Who?
Nwist
posted 07-16-2003 11:40:45 PM
Done it before and I'll do it again.
Inferno-Spirit
Sports Advocate
posted 07-16-2003 11:41:09 PM
quote:
Delphi Aegis obviously shouldn't have said:
Sure. On the cheek.

Which cheek?

"He lets the last Hungarian go, and he goes running. He waits until his wife and kids are in the ground and he goes after the rest of the mob. He kills their kids, he kills their wives, he kills their parents and their parents' friends. He burns down the houses they grew up in and the stores they work in, he kills people that owe them money. And like that he was gone. Underground. No one has ever seen him again. He becomes a myth, a spook story that criminals tell their kids at night. 'If you rat on your pop, Keyser Soze will get you.' And nobody really ever believes." - Roger 'Verbal' Kint, The Usual Suspects
KaLourin
Illanae's Stooge!
posted 07-16-2003 11:42:14 PM
quote:
Not Trent enlisted the help of an infinite number of monkeys to write:
Yeah.

It's a kiss, not like a full blown make out heavy petting hump your leg thing...

Is it?


*takes his advice from Tal, and humps Trent's leg furiously*

yeah, uhn uhn, yeah.. you LIKE that don't you! yea!

Dont make me slap you so hard your bucket spins around, and around,and stops sideways,thus confusing you, and making you run about London wearing your bucket, a g-string, and carrying a stick,smacking the ground while yelling "MAGICALLY DELICIOUS! MAGICALLY FUCKING DELICIOUS!"- {Tal} to Mortious
Hebrew 9:3- 'And the Lord said unto me, "Dude, there isn't a K in covenant."' - Snoota

This beer drops trou and fucks your mouth with pure hoppy goodness. - Karnaj
Puggy
Pancake
posted 07-16-2003 11:42:38 PM
...

Must not submit to peer pressure...

Yes! Of... of course!

Damn.

[ 07-16-2003: Message edited by: Puggy the Squirrel ]

Addy
posted 07-16-2003 11:43:20 PM
A nice, sweet kiss.
Nicole
The hip-hop-happiest bunny in all of marshmallow woods
posted 07-16-2003 11:44:57 PM
I've done worse, so why not?

Don't see why dates have to be this big giant evil "must... impress... opposite sex..." type deal anyway...



I just spent
my last cent
purchasing this poverty.

Karnaj
Road Warrior Queef
posted 07-16-2003 11:46:28 PM
I did, and and two and a half years later, we're still together.

The moral of the story: it couldn't hurt.

That's the American Dream: to make your life into something you can sell. - Chuck Palahniuk, Haunted

Under capitalism, man exploits man. Under communism, it's just the opposite. - John Kenneth Galbraith



Beer.

Bricktop
Old and Gay
posted 07-16-2003 11:49:17 PM
A righteous infliction of retribution manifested by an appropriate agent.
Alleria Qui'farush
Chica!
posted 07-16-2003 11:50:16 PM
quote:
Nicole said this about your mom:
I've done worse, so why not?

Don't see why dates have to be this big giant evil "must... impress... opposite sex..." type deal anyway...


The first date of my life is tomorrow. I'm just nervous, that's all... And never been kissed. >_<

Koosh Man
Pancake
posted 07-16-2003 11:52:22 PM
Ah. Generally the body of the date dictates whether you're going to do the kiss goodnight or not.
Trent
Smurfberry Moneyshot
posted 07-16-2003 11:54:34 PM
quote:
KaLourin had this to say about Knight Rider:
*takes his advice from Tal, and humps Trent's leg furiously*

yeah, uhn uhn, yeah.. you LIKE that don't you! yea!


Maradon!
posted 07-16-2003 11:56:00 PM
Kiss? Hell, I'd go all the way. I am a complete slut.

Because it is fun.

Pvednes
Lynched
posted 07-16-2003 11:59:04 PM
quote:
So quoth Alleria Qui'farush:
The first date of my life is tomorrow. I'm just nervous, that's all... And never been kissed. >_<


Just have fun! *smiles*

Emily
Why's everybody always hittin on me?
posted 07-17-2003 12:00:46 AM
Yes, but only if I really liked the guy... And not a huge make-out thing.

I'm not sure if I'd make the first move toward it, though. Well, I probably would... but I would have to sense that he wanted it too, and was just too shy to make the move. That's hard to do sometimes. Hell, I actually think I'd be bold enough to just come out and ask him if I was really confused, but that seems to remove the charm of things...

Don't spend the whole night worrying about how it's going to end, though. Just have fun, and let things take care of themselves.

[ 07-17-2003: Message edited by: Savannah / Emily ]

Should've done something, but I've done it enough
By the way your hands were shaking
Rather waste some time with you

Should've said something, but I've said it enough
By the way my words were faded
Rather waste some time with you...

Blindy
Roll for initiative, Monkey Boy!
posted 07-17-2003 12:11:53 AM
Uhm. Yes, unless I didn't want to see her again, I would attempt to kiss her.

However, If i move in and she doesn't want to kiss me, I will take that as a sign that she didn't enjoy her evening and wouldn't want to go out on another date with me.

On a plane ride, the more it shakes,
The more I have to let go.
Puggy
Pancake
posted 07-17-2003 12:14:45 AM
quote:
Absolut Blindy had this to say about dark elf butts:
However, If i move in and she doesn't want to kiss me, I will take that as a sign that she didn't enjoy her evening and wouldn't want to go out on another date with me.

Trickery afoot!

Blindy
Roll for initiative, Monkey Boy!
posted 07-17-2003 12:15:47 AM
unless she says she had a great time, and asks me to call her right after that.
On a plane ride, the more it shakes,
The more I have to let go.
Inferno-Spirit
Sports Advocate
posted 07-17-2003 12:17:00 AM
quote:
Savannah / Emily had this to say about Pirotess:
Just have fun, and let things take care of themselves.
"He lets the last Hungarian go, and he goes running. He waits until his wife and kids are in the ground and he goes after the rest of the mob. He kills their kids, he kills their wives, he kills their parents and their parents' friends. He burns down the houses they grew up in and the stores they work in, he kills people that owe them money. And like that he was gone. Underground. No one has ever seen him again. He becomes a myth, a spook story that criminals tell their kids at night. 'If you rat on your pop, Keyser Soze will get you.' And nobody really ever believes." - Roger 'Verbal' Kint, The Usual Suspects
Sean
posted 07-17-2003 12:26:08 AM
If she's cool with it, why not?
A Kansas City Shuffle is when everybody looks right, you go left.

It's not something people hear about.

Palador ChibiDragon
Dismembered
posted 07-17-2003 12:30:38 AM
On the hand only. It has emotion AND class.

That's if I went out on a date, that is. Which I never do.

I believe in the existance of magic, not because I have seen proof of its existance, but because I refuse to live in a world where it does not exist.
Addy
posted 07-17-2003 12:31:39 AM
quote:
Palador ChibiDragon had this to say about Cuba:
On the hand only. It has emotion AND class.

That's if I went out on a date, that is. Which I never do.


So gentleman like,

That would be so sweet.

KaLourin
Illanae's Stooge!
posted 07-17-2003 12:32:00 AM
lemme ask ye this, did he ask you out, or did you ask him out?

if he asked you out.. then he's already interested. If things go well, and you both enjoy yourself, sure why not. Besides, it's a more definitive "lets do this again sometime" than just saying it and walking off. Smooch will pretty much spell it out for him that you do like him, and did enjoy the evening.

Have fun. bottom line. that is all.

Dont make me slap you so hard your bucket spins around, and around,and stops sideways,thus confusing you, and making you run about London wearing your bucket, a g-string, and carrying a stick,smacking the ground while yelling "MAGICALLY DELICIOUS! MAGICALLY FUCKING DELICIOUS!"- {Tal} to Mortious
Hebrew 9:3- 'And the Lord said unto me, "Dude, there isn't a K in covenant."' - Snoota

This beer drops trou and fucks your mouth with pure hoppy goodness. - Karnaj
Emily
Why's everybody always hittin on me?
posted 07-17-2003 12:32:40 AM
quote:
Addy was naked while typing this:
So gentleman like,

That would be so sweet.


Yeah, but it could really only go one way. I like having the opportunity to make the first move!

Should've done something, but I've done it enough
By the way your hands were shaking
Rather waste some time with you

Should've said something, but I've said it enough
By the way my words were faded
Rather waste some time with you...

Blindy
Roll for initiative, Monkey Boy!
posted 07-17-2003 12:33:01 AM
quote:
If I had a nickle for every time Palador ChibiDragon said:
On the hand only. It has emotion AND class.


Hand... no. unless you want to look like a dork.

Give her a hug and kiss her forehead, if you are too shy to kiss her proper like. You kiss a hand when you meet someone, or to show respect for a married woman's husband by not getting to close, while still giving her proper affections in greeting or goodbye.

It is not something that should be done at the end of a date. The begining, perhaps, not the end.

On a plane ride, the more it shakes,
The more I have to let go.
Addy
posted 07-17-2003 12:35:03 AM
quote:
Absolut Blindy had this to say about Robocop:
Hand... no. unless you want to look like a dork.

Give her a hug and kiss her forehead, if you are too shy to kiss her proper like. You kiss a hand when you meet someone, or to show respect for a married woman's husband by not getting to close, while still giving her proper affections in greeting or goodbye.

It is not something that should be done at the end of a date. The begining, perhaps, not the end.


Yeah, that is true. I guess I just like old-fashioned guys though.

Emily
Why's everybody always hittin on me?
posted 07-17-2003 12:36:07 AM
And wait, this is your only concern about your first date? My God, I think the biggest stress in my mind before my first date was the who-pays issue.
Should've done something, but I've done it enough
By the way your hands were shaking
Rather waste some time with you

Should've said something, but I've said it enough
By the way my words were faded
Rather waste some time with you...

Tal NSFW!!
Pancake
posted 07-17-2003 12:37:20 AM
Hell, I've kissed strangers in the mall before.

On a related note, I've gotten slapped more at the mall than anywhere else.

Blindy
Roll for initiative, Monkey Boy!
posted 07-17-2003 12:40:55 AM
quote:
Hey kids, it's howdy-Savannah / Emilydy time!
And wait, this is your only concern about your first date? My God, I think the biggest stress in my mind before my first date was the who-pays issue.

the man should pay for the first three dates. After that, it is no longer rude for the woman to offer.

Let me rephrase that.

The woman can offer whenever she wants, but durring the first three dates, the man is well within the realm of politeness to refuse. After three dates, it's rude to turn down an offer like that.

On a plane ride, the more it shakes,
The more I have to let go.
Vorbis
Vend-A-Goat
posted 07-17-2003 12:47:06 AM
quote:
Absolut Blindy's fortune cookie read:
the man should pay for the first three dates. After that, it is no longer rude for the woman to offer.

Let me rephrase that.

The woman can offer whenever she wants, but durring the first three dates, the man is well within the realm of politeness to refuse. After three dates, it's rude to turn down an offer like that.


Wait, and how's your love life been?

Alleria Qui'farush
Chica!
posted 07-17-2003 12:48:38 AM
quote:
Savannah / Emily attempted to be funny by writing:
And wait, this is your only concern about your first date? My God, I think the biggest stress in my mind before my first date was the who-pays issue.

I'm such a loser, aren't I? But we've already dealed with the "Who pays" situation. It was a long discussion because I always feel guilty when people pay for me. It always seems like I have to pay them back, and when I do they won't allow it. I hate people paying for me. I hate it I hate it I hate it. This is what I get for not being a greedy person... Feeling guilty.

He pretty much asked me out, but it wasn't directly like "Would you like to go out with me?" The thing is we were hanging out over the 4th of July weekend, and he was putting the moves on me and all that. I didn't know if it was just a weekend fling or he wanted to go out with me, so I asked him about it and he said that he really had no idea. Then he asked me if I would care if I did go out with him, and I said that I wouldn't mind at all. So here we are today.

Vorbis
Vend-A-Goat
posted 07-17-2003 12:50:39 AM
quote:
Alleria Qui'farush probably says this to all the girls:
I'm such a loser, aren't I? But we've already dealed with the "Who pays" situation. It was a long discussion because I always feel guilty when people pay for me. It always seems like I have to pay them back, and when I do they won't allow it. I hate people paying for me. I hate it I hate it I hate it. This is what I get for not being a greedy person... Feeling guilty.

He pretty much asked me out, but it wasn't directly like "Would you like to go out with me?" The thing is we were hanging out over the 4th of July weekend, and he was putting the moves on me and all that. I didn't know if it was just a weekend fling or he wanted to go out with me, so I asked him about it and he said that he really had no idea. Then he asked me if I would care if I did go out with him, and I said that I wouldn't mind at all. So here we are today.


And the check when it arrived we went dutch dutch dutch...

Tal NSFW!!
Pancake
posted 07-17-2003 12:53:58 AM
quote:
Absolut Blindy had this to say about Punky Brewster:
the man should pay for the first three dates. After that, it is no longer rude for the woman to offer.

Let me rephrase that.

The woman can offer whenever she wants, but durring the first three dates, the man is well within the realm of politeness to refuse. After three dates, it's rude to turn down an offer like that.


What are you, retarded? Or did you read that in some "Miss Manners" column in the saturday paper? Things such as that depend completely on the two people involved, and thats it.

however, if the dude shows up broke, I dont reccomend dating him again. I had a friend whos worst date started with "Well, I got enough money to buy ME a Crystal Burger, howsabout you?"

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