What do you think is the one biggest problem with yourself? Think about it hard! Like Geeorn said, grades and such don't count. Neither does your physical appearance and other things beyond your control. I'm talking one personality flaw that you feel is hurting the quality of your life.
Me? I'm almost positive my big problem is my lack of assertiveness and confidence in real life. I'm too quick to take the word of others as fact, and I panic in social situations and stumble over my own words. I'm generally very quiet around people I don't know very well because of this, and I embarrass quickly.
"Don't want to sound like a fanboy, but I am with you. I'll buy it for sure, it's just a matter of for how long I will be playing it..."
- Silvast, Battle.net forums
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Maradon? had this to say about Captain Planet:
Me? I'm almost positive my big problem is my lack of assertiveness and confidence in real life. I'm too quick to take the word of others as fact, and I panic in social situations and stumble over my own words. I'm generally very quiet around people I don't know very well because of this, and I embarrass quickly.
I had a similar problem, except now that I'm bitter and cynical, I just hate everyone. I don't embarass quickly. I irritate quickly. So, in an effort to avoid irritation, I avoid social situations if at all possible.
Hence, I am here.
P.S. If my girlfriend's going, however, I'm going. So, I put on my Fake Grin of Steel and eat shit and keep smiling!
Under capitalism, man exploits man. Under communism, it's just the opposite. - John Kenneth Galbraith
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Karnaj stumbled drunkenly to the keyboard and typed:
I had a similar problem, except now that I'm bitter and cynical, I just hate everyone. I don't embarass quickly. I irritate quickly. So, in an effort to avoid irritation, I avoid social situations if at all possible.Hence, I am here.
P.S. If my girlfriend's going, however, I'm going. So, I put on my Fake Grin of Steel and eat shit and keep smiling!
If you're eating shit and grinning, then today isn't your day.
Its my self esteem
Fal
Oddly, I feel a bit better when I let my troubles be known to others. I guess I'm just a lame masochist >_<
hate humans
hate liers
hate people who tell others to fuck off when they voice an opinion
i gotta lotta problems
Some time too nice for my own good.
Hold things in WAY too much.
And I am too tolerant.
I feel alone alot of the times IRL, not because of KaLourin.. but because of the lack of friends I have in general.. most of my social life has been gotten from online.. hell I met KaLourin online on a MUD.
I cant stand hypocrites.. I hate myself when I find myself being one.
I am too nice for my own good. I get burned by alot of people for it because I get taken advantage of. I believe in the goodness of people far too easily. Although, once someone throws that trust out the door.. it takes FOREVER to get back into good light as far as I go(If I am not already holding a nasty grudge against a person.. in that case most times forgiveness isnt an option for me.. yes I am a totally stubborn bitch). Not that my opinion of people matters to others.. but this is just as far as I am concerned.
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We were all impressed when Fred Chook wrote:
/me gives everyone here a hug.
/hugs Fred
Thanks! I needed that
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Snoota wrote, obviously thinking to hard:
Crack.
Obviously, you werent thinking very hard. :Þ
I don't get enough of it.
Quick to be irritated (but don't voice it to others)
i don't eat much because i sleep in the daytime, so i'm always hungry when i wake up
i have very little patience and tolerance
- Sometimes I get really...xenophobic. Or people-phobic, in general. I just wanna be alone. I don't really wanna go out and go to a party. And it gets really obnoxious when my boyfriend is constantly asking me if we can hang out, and for some reason, I just kinda shy away from it or force myself into hanging out with him...It's not because I don't love 'em though. I don't really know what it is. Just shyness, I guess........
Also, my tendency to be really sensitive. I hate that.
I have one friend who puts up with me...
My fiancé understands me somewhat, that when I do an insult, I usually never mean it...I don't hate everyone, or anyone in particular usually, it just seems like i'm a major ass, and I keep trying to change.
Not that great online with females.....when I try to be nice or joke around, usually the way my words go, it seems like i'm hitting on them, which isn't the case. I try to be friendly, joke around and show some affection to the females, just because I like to think that deep down inside, I am a nice guy. Hope that's true..
*is really depressed now*
But ya'll probably already knew that.
--Satan, quoted by John Milton
it's kinda like one of the new DBZ Episodes, Goten was just blocking all of this kids punches like they were going 2MPH and he said, "This is it?" as if he expected everyone else in the world to be at his level of expertise. that's what i feel like in terms of how i think. i just can't understand why everyone else finds academics SO DAMN HARD while to me any kind of abstract idea i am able to understand with ease.
other than that my second worse problem is that i don't take things seriously enough. i dunno, to me life is funny. i can laugh off insults that would have others screaming for a fight on the spot. i can grin away a bitching out for some minor fault of mine. i've never really seen this as a fault, but for how much i get bitched at for it i dunno any more.
I despise incompetence and ignorance. If you can't do it, get the h*** out of my way.
I enter into battles of wits with unarmed people, and do not give quarter. This one ties in to the ignorance thing...
To add to that:
I'm an introvert, contrary to what you may think of here. I don't mingle with people too well (odd for a Leo) and more often than not, I get caught in feelings that nobody pays any attention to me, or likes me, or enjoys my company etc etc..
probably tied into the fact that I'm introverted and none to social outside of my own close knit circle of friends
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PhootingAPhoton OfGas had this to say about Punky Brewster:
Probably my biggest problem is I have very little social life. And everybody here is scared of my eye.
I fear not the eye.
Which I guess that in of itself is a problem... ah well
I'm running out of jokes, and fast.
No chance to do what I want to anymore. The path to my dreams is gone, so I need to make new dreams.
That's my biggest flaw, and I hate myself whenever I can't overcome it.
*tries to run and hide, but knows it's useless*
I'm a compulsive liar
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Geeorn had this to say about Punky Brewster:
i generally can't bring myself to think at the level of the "normal" person.it's kinda like one of the new DBZ Episodes, Goten was just blocking all of this kids punches like they were going 2MPH and he said, "This is it?" as if he expected everyone else in the world to be at his level of expertise. that's what i feel like in terms of how i think. i just can't understand why everyone else finds academics SO DAMN HARD while to me any kind of abstract idea i am able to understand with ease.
other than that my second worse problem is that i don't take things seriously enough. i dunno, to me life is funny. i can laugh off insults that would have others screaming for a fight on the spot. i can grin away a bitching out for some minor fault of mine. i've never really seen this as a fault, but for how much i get bitched at for it i dunno any more.
I do the exact same thing. I get tests and assignments done in a fraction of the time, and then feel embarrassed and whatnot when every one else looks at me like I'm nuts.
In real life, I hate hurting people. I hate it so much that I will go as far as hurting my self in an effort not to hurt others.