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Topic: How does playing a female character qualify a guy as a homosexual?
Damnati
Filthy
posted 11-04-2004 11:43:43 PM
I have little understanding for this concept but people like to throw such labels at me because I play female characters. Frankly, I've long found that I understand, identify with, and roleplay better the fairer sex. I've no attraction to men; aside from my hatred of humanity in general, I find men in particular to be most disgusting examples of our race (note: I do, in fact, include myself in this). So, with these things in mind, explain to me, with good reasoning and logic, how labelling me and other guys like me as homosexuals due to choice of gender in a video game is justifiable in your eyes.

This is a -MAJOR- pet peeve of mine.

Love is hard, harder than steel and thrice as cruel. It is as inexorable as the tides and life and death alike follow in its wake. -Phèdre nó Delaunay, Kushiel's Chosen

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the beans of Java the thoughts aquire speed, the teeth acquire stains, the stains become a warning. It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

Mr. Parcelan
posted 11-04-2004 11:44:37 PM
Chill out, fag
nem-x
posted 11-04-2004 11:44:53 PM
http://forums.evercrest.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=1&t=060930
Sean
posted 11-04-2004 11:45:01 PM
I'd say you're more a disgusting crossdresser than a fag.

But I'm a bit biased. I can't stand you guys.

A Kansas City Shuffle is when everybody looks right, you go left.

It's not something people hear about.

Damnati
Filthy
posted 11-04-2004 11:48:14 PM
quote:
We were all impressed when Sean wrote:
I'd say you're more a disgusting crossdresser than a fag.

But I'm a bit biased. I can't stand you guys.


Explain why. It's an honest question, I don't mean to come across as defensive, but I'm not sure it'd seem any other way. I'm quite curious.

Love is hard, harder than steel and thrice as cruel. It is as inexorable as the tides and life and death alike follow in its wake. -Phèdre nó Delaunay, Kushiel's Chosen

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the beans of Java the thoughts aquire speed, the teeth acquire stains, the stains become a warning. It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

LeMiere
posted 11-04-2004 11:49:26 PM
Hmm.. I like to cross-dress in real life on occasion, but playing a female character in a game isn't that appealing to me, unless I'm looking for a role-playing stretch.
Caid '5 Fists' Berrit
I've had a few beers but I'm cool to drive
posted 11-04-2004 11:50:00 PM
Oh I think you know.
'But if I had a shotgun you know what I'd do?
I'd point that shit straight at the sky and shoot heavan on down for you'

Bradley Nowell
Damnati
Filthy
posted 11-04-2004 11:52:01 PM
ANSWER THE QUESTION DANGIT!!!
Love is hard, harder than steel and thrice as cruel. It is as inexorable as the tides and life and death alike follow in its wake. -Phèdre nó Delaunay, Kushiel's Chosen

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the beans of Java the thoughts aquire speed, the teeth acquire stains, the stains become a warning. It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

Chugga
Pancake
posted 11-04-2004 11:52:07 PM
I sometimes pick females in RPGs, especially games where I have to look at em in 3rd person. I'd much rather stare at a polygon chick's ass than a polygon dude's ass. Though I do make it abundantly clear I'm a guy.
Sean
posted 11-04-2004 11:54:58 PM
It is both simple and complex. Complex in that I am plagued by deep-seated emotional issues stemming from a childhood trauma involving a sock, two egg beaters, and a rubber ducky.

And simple in the case that, no matter how hard you try, and no matter how many estrogen injections you give yourself beforehand, you can neither react or think in the same manner a woman does. Therefor your character will not either, unless you grossly exaggerate.

In most of the games I play, crossdressing is forbidden - with the rare exception of a character of the player's actual gender being magically changed to the other. Which, as I'm sure Rosa and Addy will come along and testify to, is rare. Except in my case. My DM hates me with his Wild Magic rules.

A Kansas City Shuffle is when everybody looks right, you go left.

It's not something people hear about.

Sean
posted 11-04-2004 11:56:46 PM
quote:
Maho wrote this stupid crap:
ANSWER THE QUESTION DANGIT!!!

I'M SORRY IT TOOK LONGER THAN FOUR MINUTES. NEXT TIME I WILL DROP EVERYTHING TO ANSWER YOU AND YOUR QUESTIONS OF DIRE IMPORTANCE.

A Kansas City Shuffle is when everybody looks right, you go left.

It's not something people hear about.

LeMiere
posted 11-04-2004 11:58:39 PM
Society views femininity as an aspect of female gender. Most people do not distinguish between gender and sex. They thus see femininity as an aspect of the female sex. When a man plays the role of a female, it is assumed that he must identify with the character he is playing, as such a stress of character creation seems generally unnecessary. The male sex is seen as though they are supposed to idealize acting as a masculine entity. When a male adopts a female avatar, that must mean, to the average eye, that he does not wish to partake in the common idealization of the masculine figure that man 'should.' Thus society brands him as having similar attributes as women, who are considered feminine, who like men. Thus a feminine character must like men, and a man who plays the character must like men, because his character's model idealizes a feminine beauty, not to be gawked at, but to be played/acted through. Not to mention, that character is the identifyer of the player.
Mortious
Gluttonous Overlard
posted 11-05-2004 12:02:21 AM
Lemmy is.. hell.. I don't know what he is.
LeMiere
posted 11-05-2004 12:03:55 AM
quote:
Mortious thought about the meaning of life:
Lemmy is.. hell.. I don't know what he is.

I'm ... in need of a shave.

Damnati
Filthy
posted 11-05-2004 12:06:28 AM
quote:
ACES! Another post by LeMiere:
Society views femininity as an aspect of female gender. Most people do not distinguish between gender and sex. They thus see femininity as an aspect of the female sex. When a man plays the role of a female, it is assumed that he must identify with the character he is playing, as such a stress of character creation seems generally unnecessary. The male sex is seen as though they are supposed to idealize acting as a masculine entity. When a male adopts a female avatar, that must mean, to the average eye, that he does not wish to partake in the common idealization of the masculine figure that man 'should.' Thus society brands him as having similar attributes as women, who are considered feminine, who like men. Thus a feminine character must like men, and a man who plays the character must like men, because his character's model idealizes a feminine beauty, not to be gawked at, but to be played/acted through. Not to mention, that character is the identifyer of the player.

Thank you. You're the first to actually bother addressing the topic of the thread. For this, I give you pie. *buries LeMiere in coconut cream pies*

Love is hard, harder than steel and thrice as cruel. It is as inexorable as the tides and life and death alike follow in its wake. -Phèdre nó Delaunay, Kushiel's Chosen

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the beans of Java the thoughts aquire speed, the teeth acquire stains, the stains become a warning. It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

Mortious
Gluttonous Overlard
posted 11-05-2004 12:06:31 AM
quote:
LeMiere wrote:
I'm ... in need of a shave.

The question is.. where?

LeMiere
posted 11-05-2004 12:07:14 AM
I need to shave the face and legs. Everything else is up to date.

And I love pie.

Sean
posted 11-05-2004 12:07:51 AM
quote:
Mortious enlisted the help of an infinite number of monkeys to write:
The question is.. where?

I could use a trim myself, but I never shave, shave.

A Kansas City Shuffle is when everybody looks right, you go left.

It's not something people hear about.

Faelynn LeAndris
Lusty busty redheaded wood elf with sharp claws
posted 11-05-2004 01:44:10 AM
quote:
Sean wrote, obviously thinking too hard:
And simple in the case that, no matter how hard you try, and no matter how many estrogen injections you give yourself beforehand, you can neither react or think in the same manner a woman does. Therefor your character will not either, unless you grossly exaggerate.

I could, and did... Now whether I should concider that a good thing or not still bothers me.

As for why I play a chick in games, plain and simple, I'm a pervert, and I don't looking at guys. If I play a game, I'm playing a chick because I'd rather look at cartoon female tits and ass, than male tits and ass.

If it's not a graphical game, then typically, I don't play a chick because then there isnt anything to see. So it is irrelevant, I think I have maybe twice in my life played a female character in a non-graphical DnD game. One time was simply because the DM only needed me to fill and NPC roll he had (Since my character had died, and I had to wait to get back into it) and the second time was for the game Rob ran when he came to visit here, and that one scarred me for life because Tim tried to sell me into exotic entertainment and leave me at the bar.

So unless you count being a DM myself and having to act out the female rolls for my players, those are the only two instances in where I have done that. The only time in a graphical game I have played a chick without the purpose of looks was in the case of Faelynn, and technically I had never planned to play her for real, she was an RP addition to my male character, so I only played here when I was taking a break from him. I just ended up having more fun playing her class, so stuck with her.

I'm also known around EC as one of the original sluts, hence my title that has remained the same for so many years even though it no longer applies,... Again not sure if I should be proud of that or not. I had people everywhere, including ECers call me a liar when I kept telling them I was a guy, it took almost 2 years before a lot people actually accepted the fact I was a GUY, not a GIRL, I AM A GUY!


My LAUNCHCast Station
"Respect the Forest, Fear the Ranger"
I got lost for an hour and became god.
Liam
Swims in Erotic Circles
posted 11-05-2004 02:00:59 AM
I never did understand the rational that people play as females just so they can look at their characters and what not. I mean, when I play Max Payne I'm not repulsed at the fact that I'm looking at a male or anything.

And aside from that, I'm usually too busy playing the game to care all that much about what my character really looks like.

Gork
Pancake
posted 11-05-2004 02:42:09 AM
I Fal.
Another Unsolved Mystery is goin' down in history.
Maradon!
posted 11-05-2004 02:46:33 AM
quote:
How.... Liam.... uughhhhhh:
I never did understand the rational that people play as females just so they can look at their characters and what not. I mean, when I play Max Payne I'm not repulsed at the fact that I'm looking at a male or anything.

I don't buy it either.

People Fae and Fal are just freaks.

Kegwen
Sonyfag
posted 11-05-2004 03:18:35 AM
Jeez, I don't even play as a female. :/
Nae
Fun with Chocolate
posted 11-05-2004 03:22:35 AM
I made a CoH guy that looks like the Elidel dude because he was so cute. Does that make me gay?

ono

Tarquinn
Personally responsible for the decline of the American Dollar
posted 11-05-2004 03:29:14 AM
Yeah, I agree with Sean.

It annoys the heck out of me.

~Never underestimate the power of a Dark Clown.
Faelynn LeAndris
Lusty busty redheaded wood elf with sharp claws
posted 11-05-2004 08:03:06 AM
quote:
Maradon! painfully thought these words up:
I don't buy it either.

People Fae and Fal are just freaks.


Why is DOA so popular? It's not because it's the one of the greatest fighting game systems (Although there will be those guys who claim it is, and thats the only reason they play it!) why did everyone look forward to DoA Extreme Beach Volleyball, whats the most fun part about Outlaw Golf, why are the number one comments about games around here a lot of times about pantyshots and playing the female fighters like Ivy or Sophita or whatnot in the games JUST because they are good eye candy, why are there thousands apon thousands of "Hottest Female Game Character Polls" everywhere?

I'm sorry, I just don't like looking at guys for any length of time. Will it stop me from playing a game if I can't play a female, as in Liam's example? No, but given the choice between having a female character and a male one, I'll play a female for just that reason. EXPECIALLY where it's a game that I spend several hours on per day, several days a week, so several years.

I have no secret desires to be female, I don't act like a female in my real life, I have no desire to dress up in girls upderwear, and I was never one of those lucky guys playing a girl, that everyone always gave stuff too... Hell after 4 years and 30 levels in EQ I was still in my lowbie leather armor. I also have male characters in everyone one of those games too, I just honestly get tired of looking at it. And since it's a time investment, I spent more time looking at T&A rather than Planks and Wang.


My LAUNCHCast Station
"Respect the Forest, Fear the Ranger"
I got lost for an hour and became god.
Tarquinn
Personally responsible for the decline of the American Dollar
posted 11-05-2004 08:10:43 AM
quote:
There was much rejoicing when Faelynn LeAndris said this:
I have no secret desires to be female...

Duh, it would be no longer secret if you would tell us about it!

~Never underestimate the power of a Dark Clown.
Blindy.
Suicide (Also: Gay.)
posted 11-05-2004 08:44:43 AM
I play female characters because I think females look infinatly better than males and I want my character to look good. But if i'm making a character to role play, it's a guy. I can't do chick.
diadem
eet bugz
posted 11-05-2004 08:59:41 AM
no, wanting to have sex with men and not women makes you homosexual
play da best song in da world or me eet your soul
JooJooFlop
Hungry Hungry Hippo
posted 11-05-2004 09:00:05 AM
I see nothing wrong with playing a female character, but roleplaying that female character does make you a bit faggy.

Unless you do it just so people will give you stuff for free without asking for it. Then it's acceptable.

I don't know how to be sexy. If I catch a girl looking at me and our eyes lock, I panic and open mine wider. Then I lick my lips and rub my genitals. And mouth the words "You're dead."
Maradon!
posted 11-05-2004 09:02:29 AM
quote:
Faelynn LeAndris thought this was the Ricky Martin Fan Club Forum and wrote:
Why is DOA so popular? It's not because it's the one of the greatest fighting game systems (Although there will be those guys who claim it is, and thats the only reason they play it!) why did everyone look forward to DoA Extreme Beach Volleyball, whats the most fun part about Outlaw Golf, why are the number one comments about games around here a lot of times about pantyshots and playing the female fighters like Ivy or Sophita or whatnot in the games JUST because they are good eye candy, why are there thousands apon thousands of "Hottest Female Game Character Polls" everywhere?

I'm sorry, I just don't like looking at guys for any length of time. Will it stop me from playing a game if I can't play a female, as in Liam's example? No, but given the choice between having a female character and a male one, I'll play a female for just that reason. EXPECIALLY where it's a game that I spend several hours on per day, several days a week, so several years.


There are a couple of flaws with your claim.

1) Your claims about DoA and such are basically correct except for one thing - Nobody talks about playing as the hot characters. Nobody shows any predilection toward playing a female character just because it's attractive. You never hear anyone say "Ivy is my favorite character to use, because she's hot." I've only ever heard that sort of claim come from someone who plays a female character in every other game they play.

2) The "I just don't like looking at guys" claim doesn't hold water either, primarily because it's a little hard to believe that you're so utterly repulsed by the male form that you can't stand to look at the back of a guy's head on the few occasions that your attention can be spared for idle activity, but also because even in games where you never, ever see your character model (Unreal Tournament comes to mind) you still use the female player models.

3) This claim doesn't explain the fact that both you and Fal portray yourselves as female outside the games you play as well. I've never seen either of you use a sigpic that wasn't obviously female.

quote:
I have no secret desires to be female, I don't act like a female in my real life, I have no desire to dress up in girls upderwear, and I was never one of those lucky guys playing a girl, that everyone always gave stuff too... Hell after 4 years and 30 levels in EQ I was still in my lowbie leather armor. I also have male characters in everyone one of those games too, I just honestly get tired of looking at it. And since it's a time investment, I spent more time looking at T&A rather than Planks and Wang.

I'm not claiming anything like that, I only claim that your given reason sounds extremely suspect to me.

-Yuri-
Pancake
posted 11-05-2004 09:07:49 AM
I just dont see a reason to. The whole 'I like looking at female tits and ass' is bullshit. It's pixels. It's not real. Those 'tits' and 'asses' are just groupings of pixels with no gender included. Playing a female character, in my eyes, is playing a lie.

I am a man. I play male characters.

Women are women. They play female characters.

I just boil it down to logic. Would I dress up as a female in real life because I prefer looking at females? No. Then, for the same reason, I would not dress up as a girl in a game because I prefer looking at females.

Maradon!
posted 11-05-2004 09:09:13 AM
quote:
-Yuri- had this to say about Punky Brewster:
I just dont see a reason to. The whole 'I like looking at female tits and ass' is bullshit. It's pixels. It's not real. Those 'tits' and 'asses' are just groupings of pixels with no gender included.

Eh, you could say the same thing about porn, hentai, and any number of other things.

-Yuri-
Pancake
posted 11-05-2004 09:12:11 AM
quote:
Maradon! said this:
Eh, you could say the same thing about porn, hentai, and any number of other things.

Porn at least are real people. It's actual video.

I don't like hentai for the same reason I mentioned earlier.


Edit: I guess what I'm saying is the pixels in pornography are representing real people doing acts that really happened. There's an element of the knowledge of the fact that the event did happen and that these people really did do what the video portrays. Hentai or even the very basic idea of female avatars represent nothing but the artists imagination, most of the time, another guy's imagination. I just dont see how people get turned on by looking at something some other guy came up with.

Maybe I'm just homophobic.

-Yuri- fucked around with this message on 11-05-2004 at 09:17 AM.

Maradon!
posted 11-05-2004 09:18:42 AM
quote:
-Yuri- stopped beating up furries long enough to write:
Porn at least are real people. It's actual video.

It's actual video that consists of a series of illuminated pixels combined to represent a real life entity, just like chicks in games and hentai.

-Yuri-
Pancake
posted 11-05-2004 09:20:01 AM
quote:
Maradon! said this:
It's actual video that consists of a series of illuminated pixels combined to represent a real life entity, just like chicks in games and hentai.

read my edit.. I think I clarified my thoughts a little clearer.

Blindy.
Suicide (Also: Gay.)
posted 11-05-2004 09:23:14 AM
quote:
-Yuri- Model 2000 was programmed to say:
Edit: I guess what I'm saying is the pixels in pornography are representing real people doing acts that really happened. There's an element of the knowledge of the fact that the event did happen and that these people really did do what the video portrays. Hentai or even the very basic idea of female avatars represent nothing but the artists imagination, most of the time, another guy's imagination. I just dont see how people get turned on by looking at something some other guy came up with.

Maybe I'm just homophobic.


Video games chicks are every bit as real as magazine centerfolds once the airbrushing artists are done with them.

As for sex porn, well that's something a little different, isn't it?

Ruvyen
Cartoon Broccoli Boy
posted 11-05-2004 09:25:21 AM
I have occasionally played female characters in games. No, I haven't done it because women = h0t, or because man ass = the sux0r. I just kinda felt like it at the time.

M'eh.

Thief: "I have come to a realisation. Dragons are not real in a general sense, but they may exist in certain specific cases."
Fighter: "Like how quantum mechanics describes how subatomic particles can spontaneously pop into existence at random!"
Thief: "No, that's stupid and stop making up words."
--8-Bit Theater
Azakias
Never wore the pants, thus still wields the power of unused (_|_)
posted 11-05-2004 09:27:13 AM
quote:
Check out the big brain on diadem!
no, wanting to have sex with men and not women makes you homosexual

Best answer for you.

Homosexuality is determined by who you are attracted to. I dress like a guy in real life. Does this make me a lesbian? I sure as hell am not attracted by women.

The female form is pleasing to the eye. It might be someone prefers looking at T&A, but it could also be that they enjoy artwork of the female form moreso than the male.

And seeing as all a game character is made of is pixals, then why would you take something so small as a testiment to orientation?

"Age by age have men stood up and said to the world, 'From what has come before me, I was forged, but I am new and greater than my forebears.' And so each man walks the world in ruin, abandoned and untried. Less than the whole of his being"
Maradon!
posted 11-05-2004 09:29:38 AM
Oh I do too. I just find it weird when people portray themselves as female in every game and outside games as well.

I don't think it's because they're gay and I never said so, I just don't understand why they do it.

Maradon! fucked around with this message on 11-05-2004 at 09:30 AM.

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