Everything in my life that was perfect, my girlfriend, has just been ripped from me.
Yes, we broke up....I can't handle this right now. We sat and I cried for an hour straight.
I can't even think about it without starting to cry....
Any flamers or whatever the fuck you call it, Will not be tolerated...You heartless fuckers
I'm sorry, though, would you like a hug?
(see, I'm not a "flamer" but just mean and cynical.)
*Cries even more*
I don't know what's left for me right now....so I'm waiting for my friend to get here so he can help me out
I've been going out with this girl for over 16 months and I've never been so attached with someone...I've never LOVED ANYONE like I do her....
There is a glimmer of hope...She said this might just be a little break from the relationship...and there's a chance we might get togeather again.
But right now...It just hurts so bad
Breaking up sucks, but it's part of life.
--Satan, quoted by John Milton
I hope everything will be ok
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There was much rejoicing when Red Mage said this:
You think I don't fucking know that?I've been going out with this girl for over 16 months and I've never been so attached with someone...I've never LOVED ANYONE like I do her....
There is a glimmer of hope...She said this might just be a little break from the relationship...and there's a chance we might get togeather again.
But right now...It just hurts so bad
Warning! Warning, Will Robinson!
Don't let her manipulate you with hints of getting back together.
'Sides, the more pathetically desperate you are to get her back, the less she'll want you.
Like they say: living well is the best revenge.
--Satan, quoted by John Milton
You'll find someone better.
Now buck up soldier, and go look at porn.
I went out saturday night with one of her friends...It started off as an innocent Friends going out as friends thing....
I don't know what the hell happened...but I ended up making out with her....I guess I just wanted Steph there that badly I just fantasized it was her....
I really fucked up....and Now my dad, Ever Loving as he is...Yelled at me and told me to "Grow the fuck up, YOU'RE 20 YEARS OLD DAMMIT" like he thinks emotions are the devil....Fucking bastard
[ 04-29-2002: Message edited by: Red Mage ]
And I don't want to find someone else...We're perfect togeather...I'm in no mood for "moving on" or PORN...the last god damn thing I need right now
[ 04-29-2002: Message edited by: Motiak ]
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This insanity brought to you by Red Mage:
You also dont know the full story.I went out saturday night with one of her friends...It started off as an innocent Friends going out as friends thing....
I don't know what the hell happened...but I ended up making out with her....I guess I just wanted Steph there that badly I just fantasized it was her....
I really fucked up....and Now my dad, Ever Loving as he is...Yelled at me and told me to "Grow the fuck up, YOU'RE 20 YEARS OLD DAMMIT" like he thinks emotions are the devil....Fucking bastard
And I don't want to find someone else...We're perfect togeather...I'm in no mood for "moving on" or PORN...the last god damn thing I need right now
You made out with her friend and are suprised she broke up with you?
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Red Mage had this to say about Cuba:I really fucked up....and Now my dad, Ever Loving as he is...Yelled at me and told me to "Grow the fuck up, YOU'RE 20 YEARS OLD DAMMIT" like he thinks emotions are the devil....Fucking bastard
You're obviously not perfect.
And your dad is 100% correct.
GROW THE FUCK UP AND KEEP YOUR HANDS ON YOUR OWN WOMAN.
Jesus, I felt bad for you. I honestly did.
[ 04-29-2002: Message edited by: Faeth Es'Braewyn ]
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Motiak was naked while typing this:
Wow, I'm sure all the people telling him that his problems are insignificant and part of like just make him feel GREAT. Please just shutup, everyone knows that people break up but you don't have to act like his pain is just a minor thing, I'm sorry your girlfriend broke up with your, it's a painful thing.
Thanks Mot, I don't want to start a whine like all you guys complain about...but yes, I did, at one point...feel like ending my life...because it had already ended....I'm over that....I'm not in the most emotionally stable mood right now....I just need friends to talk to...ones who understand what I am going through, and won't bitch at me for feelign this way
I felt sorry for you. Breakups are awful. But honestly, it's your own fault. You're gonna have to take the step to repair it. Simple as that. [ 04-29-2002: Message edited by: Za'Yth ]
In light of that, I retract my sympathy.
Welcome to the wide world of "actions have consequences."
Making out with someone other than your SO is not a mistake--it's a violation of trust.
Now, the only question is whether you're going to grovel and be pathetic, or take the consequences "like a man" (for want of a better phrase, but meant without sexist connotation)?
Consider this a character test. Will you pass?
--Satan, quoted by John Milton
Archers Roxxors!
[ 04-29-2002: Message edited by: Red Mage ]
But that would be smart, right?
WELCOME TO REALITY.
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Nobody really understood why Red Mage wrote:
Oh fuck this shit...If all I'm gonna get is more shit from you guys like my Father is giving me, then PLEASE, SPARE ME
Well, you came for sympathy about the break up, and then revealed that you had your tongue down another girl's throat.
And...you're expecting any less of us?
If it was your girlfriend that made out with YOUR friend, would you expect her friends to praise her?
You broke trust. You're not gonna find sympathy here. Your girlfriend is the one I have sympathy with. Advice? Yes. But obviously you're not interested in that.
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This insanity brought to you by vertue:
Am I the only one that took it as he made out with the Girl After his girlfriend broke up with him? Guess so. Hell, I dunno if that's what happened. A little clarification would be nice.
He said he went out and made out with his girlfriends friend on Saturday night, they broke up today.
So, I'm seeing made out first, friend told girlfriend and girlfriend promptly and rightly broke up with him.
IF you really liked this girl so much, like your acting right now you would not of gone and made out with her friend. So pack up and move on, because cheating just isn't cool in my book.
Jebus, dude, you're dad's right: grow up.
I'll be the first to acknowledge that girlfriends are not wives, and promises never made can't be broken--but don't freakin' start crying when your actions turn out to have consequences!
She did exactly what most people would do in that situation, and she's the only one I feel for in this situation.
(Traditionally, it's damned bad form to get huffy and self-righteous when taken to task for obviously immoral deeds.)
--Satan, quoted by John Milton
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ACES! Another post by ImNotTrent:
He said he went out and made out with his girlfriends friend on Saturday night, they broke up today.So, I'm seeing made out first, friend told girlfriend and girlfriend promptly and rightly broke up with him.
OK, I guess my mind was thinking in order of posts, and I didn't pay enough attention to everything that he wrote.
That is what will happen after writing a 7 page paper on Tolkien.
Archers Roxxors!
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Red Mage impressed everyone with:
I told her it was all me.
I admitted that, and took full blame, as I should.
And yes, I told her everything...Just not yesterday when I told her originally that I went out with her friend...she was in a horrible mood, and I didn't want to make it worse
Stealth edits to make it seem you're saying something entirely different are also in very poor taste around here.
--Satan, quoted by John Milton
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How.... Red Mage.... uughhhhhh:
Oh fuck this shit...If all I'm gonna get is more shit from you guys like my Father is giving me, then PLEASE, SPARE ME
Are you expecting us to say "Awww, we're so sorry you fucked up and your girlfriend found out." There is NO EXCUSE WHATSOEVER for cheating on your girlfriend, and, then, of all things, trying to portray yourself as the VICTIM of the situation. Face the music. You fucked up big time.
But, wait, could it still be salvaged?
Probably not. But, to keep yourself from being portrayed as a heartless bastard, you should go and talk with your ex. Chances are slim to none that she'll want to listen. But you'll bring closure to the issue for both yourself and, most likely, for her, too.
Does it hurt? Hell yes. Everything has consiquences, but if you can show her that you are really sorry and that you really love her then she might actually get back with you man. Good luck.
Archers Roxxors!
Know why? "Been there, done that, got the hat and didn't annoy others with my issues".
I'll tell you what I learned for myself. Grow up and take responcibility for what you have started.
You started making our with another woman? You deserved this.
That kinda was...No, that *really* was stupid of ya. 
Should've said something, but I've said it enough
By the way my words were faded
Rather waste some time with you...
You dug your own grave, bish.
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A sleep deprived Giantt stammered:
You dug your own grave, bish.
That's funny. 
Makes you look like a player. Nice job. I applaud you. Please see me at door two for your complementary prize of a moldy piece of processed American Cheese. You deserve it. No, really.
Listen to your dad. Geez. You're an adult; you learn to respect other adults. Even your parents.
I thought that was common sense nowadays. I guess not.
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This one time, at Red Mage camp:
I don't know what the hell happened...but I ended up making out with her....I guess I just wanted Steph there that badly I just fantasized it was her....
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