Yet, I know it that now, in my age, it is not important, to say.
See, I'm not blessed with a lot of girl-catching talents, other than the fact that I'm smart, but that isn't a whole lot.
So, girls have eluded me, and such.
So, in lieu of that, I took a relaxed, not-caring-a-whole lot attitude about the opposite sex. Great people, and I talk to like one or two, but, y'know, that girlfriend thing is just weird.
Even if I did have a girlfriend, I am little knowing to 'social rules', so, there's an element of fear and the knowledge that I will screw up a lot.
It's hard to understand. Am I right so in not caring about such, or is it better to change this attitude and seek it out for the experience?
...and, to achieve such, I'd have to change...and achieve a good terms relationship with someone single...which is IMPOSSIBLE to find most of the time.
I'm confused. Not whiny, confused. How should I approach?
If it sounds stupid, then, like, it's lieu of my confusion. :P
In any case, I wouldn't activly hunt for one, per say. Just let one come to you, cuz they either like you or pity you, both of which can work.
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Lenlalron said this about your mom:
See, I'm not blessed with a lot of girl-catching talents, other than the fact that I'm smart, but that isn't a whole lot.Even if I did have a girlfriend, I am little knowing to 'social rules', so, there's an element of fear and the knowledge that I will screw up a lot.
Neither of those have stopped me. I'd say go for it, Len. It's a great feeling. 
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Suddar Williams had this to say about Matthew Broderick:
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It was probably an 'anti-nice-guy' something, no?
Well, it works for me. It's not that funny anyway, but I figured it fit.
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Neither of those have stopped me. I'd say go for it, Len. It's a great feeling.
Yes, true, true. Kind of why I have that 'feeling'.
My attitude developed not because I decided on straight up, but because of repeated and constant failure. I just kinda grew apathetic, knowing that my efforts weren't going anywhere.
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Suddar Williams had this to say about dark elf butts:
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I was believing it untill I got to the shaved head part. Bastard.
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Suddar Williams's unholy Backstreet Boys obsession manifested in:
Nope.Well, it works for me. It's not that funny anyway, but I figured it fit.
Oh. Oops. I guess I'll read it when I get home.
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Everyone wondered WTF when Lenlalron wrote:
Yes, true, true. Kind of why I have that 'feeling'.My attitude developed not because I decided on straight up, but because of repeated and constant failure. I just kinda grew apathetic, knowing that my efforts weren't going anywhere.
Look at it my way. You will most likely not be getting into a long-term relationship at age 16(?). Unless you're just looking to get into someone's pants just for the sake of "doing it", or you're fishing for status, with whoever might give you status for having a girlfriend, what's the point?
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Giantt had this to say about Robocop:
Look at it my way. You will most likely not be getting into a long-term relationship at age 16(?). Unless you're just looking to get into someone's pants just for the sake of "doing it", or you're fishing for status, with whoever might give you status for having a girlfriend, what's the point?
Memories, maybe. Experience for later in life, when it matters. It's not good to go into college being a relational n00b, when almost no one there is.
And well, it seems kinda wrong to "practice" dating like that to me. But I'm a freak. Oh well.
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Giantt spewed forth this undeniable truth:
If you need experience with girls to be liked by them, you won't end up in a long-term relationship with them. If you do, I doubt it'll be a happy marriage.And well, it seems kinda wrong to "practice" dating like that to me. But I'm a freak. Oh
well.
Sure as heck seems that way, or, else, I'd have some possibility or hope of a girlfriend.
I don't mean 'practice' in that way, I mean, to learn the rules and stuff. Those 'unwritten rules' that you can onyl learn by experience.
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Lenlalron wrote this stupid crap:
Sure as heck seems that way, or, else, I'd have some possibility or hope of a girlfriend.
I don't mean 'practice' in that way, I mean, to learn the rules and stuff. Those 'unwritten rules' that you can onyl learn by experience.
Considering what you've been telling me about the people you hang around, it doesn't really seem like any of the girls are your type.
Did you ever figure that you might want to find someone you could like, share interests with?
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Giantt had this to say about dark elf butts:
Considering what you've been telling me about the people you hang around, it doesn't really seem like any of the girls are your type.Did you ever figure that you might want to find someone you could like, share interests with?
I hang around...about 0 chicks. I hang around with guys. The girls in my school are lame, though. And I just ca't meet new people. I am so bad at meeting people that I can't make a good enough impression to have them like me.
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Lenlalron had this to say about Matthew Broderick:
I hang around...about 0 chicks. I hang around with guys. The girls in my school are lame, though. And I just ca't meet new people. I am so bad at meeting people that I can't make a good enough impression to have them like me.
Not to interrupt our little conversation here, but I think we should continue this in chat or in PMs before someone goes "OMG taek it 2 pmz plz" on us.
I'm agreeing with Giantt.
Len, you don't need practice to find the right person. The main thing you need to be is fun to be around. Get more friends, learn to talk to strangers, etc etc.
When someone comes along, they simply will. You won't have to impress them with your l33t d4t1ng sk1llZ.
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So quoth Za'Yth:
The sky is falling.I'm agreeing with Giantt.
Len, you don't need practice to find the right person. The main thing you need to be is fun to be around. Get more friends, learn to talk to strangers, etc etc.
When someone comes along, they simply will. You won't have to impress them with your l33t d4t1ng sk1llZ.
Yaes~
Don't go GKT on us. Try to actually follow advice given
Don't give up hope - but don't make it your obsession, either.
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Za'Yth had this to say about Matthew Broderick:
The main thing you need to be is fun to be around. Get more friends, learn to talk to strangers, etc etc.
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To be more fun, I'd have to change, but, I don't know how. I mean, I'm somewhat funny and stuff, but, like, I don't have the mad skills others have that would seperate me from someone else.
I mean, I can try and become better at such, but, like, there will be people better than me, and I'll lose to the people better than me, because they'll be moer adept at talking and such.
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Lenlalron spewed forth this undeniable truth:
To be more fun, I'd have to change, but, I don't know how. I mean, I'm somewhat funny and stuff, but, like, I don't have the mad skills others have that would seperate me from someone else.I mean, I can try and become better at such, but, like, there will be people better than me, and I'll lose to the people better than me, because they'll be moer adept at talking and such.
Life isn't fair. Didn't I tell you this three-four times now?
If you give up from the very start, you won't succeed. End of story. Do not question it, just do it.
--Satan, quoted by John Milton
FLAME ON
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How.... Giantt.... uughhhhhh:
Read my first post, f00. He's 16
I saw your post, but how do I know you know how old he is? Was just seeking confermation, bish.
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At your age, I certainly wouldn't recommend swearing off girls--unless you naturally swing that way, of course--but your current "if it happens, great, if not, cool" attitude is perfectly okay.
It is important, however, to begin learning the social niceties involved in relationships with girls. You certainly don't want to be 25, and have the social skill of a 16-year-old!
It won't always work, but start learning the fine art of putting your hormones in their place, and letting your brain direct relationships.
--Satan, quoted by John Milton
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mog wrote this then went back to looking for porn:
stay away from girls, THEIR EVIL, they jsut cause pain, sorrow, depression, and bring back the lonelyness you ahd before ahundred tiems over
Don't you have anything better to do?
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Lenlalron wrote this then went back to looking for porn:
To be more fun, I'd have to change, but, I don't know how. I mean, I'm somewhat funny and stuff, but, like, I don't have the mad skills others have that would seperate me from someone else.I mean, I can try and become better at such, but, like, there will be people better than me, and I'll lose to the people better than me, because they'll be moer adept at talking and such.
Why change your ways to fit in with the "norm", so to speak? Len, from what I know, you're a great guy. Humorous (YES, you are), sensitive, intelligent, etc. etc. You'll find the right girl when it's time for you. If all the females in your school are lame, then that usually means your Right one isn't attending your school!
Don't look for your soulmate. Let her bump into you.
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Adrecia stumbled drunkenly to the keyboard and typed:Don't look for your soulmate. Let her bump into you.
What Addy said. Every so often, go ahead and jump off a bridge. You may be surprised where you land. 
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What Addy said. Every so often, go ahead and jump off a bridge. You may be surprised where you land.
That thought never crossed my mind.
I'm 16, I don't have girls just hoarding onto me, but I have my fair share. One thing I've noticed, is you've got to meet one girl and then you get inducted in her group of friends. This year I met one sophmore at the start of the year, and now I know about every sophmore girl around. I used to go out with anyone, just because I wanted a girlfriend and stuff but now that I have choices I look back at all the bad mistakes and not so good girls I went out with.
If being yourself fails, buy a Porshe, expensive sunglasses, dress nice and claim you live in a mansion and that should help you greatly.
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Adrecia thought this was the Ricky Martin Fan Club Forum and wrote:
That thought never crossed my mind.
Well, it worked for me. I'll still trying to figure out what happened with my and you-know-who (take that, Parce. ); but I'm not complaining
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Verily, Mightion Defensor doth proclaim:
Well, it worked for me. I'll still trying to figure out what happened with my and you-know-who (take that, Parce.); but I'm not complaining
*grin* Well, my significant other was first a stalker. He watched me day and night because he had no life./ Then again, he did this to various others, like D!
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Adrecia had this to say about Robocop:
*grin* Well, my significant other was first a stalker. He watched me day and night because he had no life./ Then again, he did this to various others, like D!^-^
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Watched over thank you very much.
While that may or may not be true, there are other issues at your age.
One of them is learning how to interact with others, both socially and romantically. Society, I'm pretty sure by definition, is about conforming to certain norms.
So don't be shy about conforming to societal norms. Every lesson you learn in school about fitting in will be one you don't have to learn the hard way later, when your livelihood depends on it.
Decide, slowly, step-by-step, who you want to be. Then become that person.
--Satan, quoted by John Milton
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Don't you have anything better to do?
not since the thing that made the above my opinion
If nothing else, it'll at least get their attention.
