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Topic: I need some advice...
bob12121212
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 04:25:26 PM
There is this girl I like.... and well ... you read her e-mail

Hey......
I dun think it would be possible, u see my b/f lives right across the street and well i'm pretty much with him everyday, and well i don't think i should go hang out simply becuase i kno that if my bf did that to me i would become really f*ckin mad... so yup, we can still talk in the halls or sumthin but thats as far as it goes ok


So, Now, she actually talks to me, but, I don't know what to do. Should I persue her? IF so HOW?

Bloodsage
Heart Attack
posted 12-01-2003 04:28:32 PM
Anyone who actually writes e-mail like that is beneath contempt--nay!--beneath notice.

Find someone with a multisyllabic vocabulary; you'll be happier in the long run. On the other hand, if your intentions are strictly dishonorable: pursue, catch, use, discard. Rinse and repeat until bored.

To reign is worth ambition, though in Hell:
Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven.

--Satan, quoted by John Milton

Azymyth
Not gay; just weird
posted 12-01-2003 04:29:22 PM
Sounds like she and her boyfriend are pretty close and they way she worded it, persuing her may be a bit deterimental to your health if he ever found out about.
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Aury
My hair is a deadly weapon
posted 12-01-2003 04:33:01 PM
That almost suonds like an abusive relationship in the making.
Elvish Crack Piper
Murder is justified so long as people believe in something different than you do
posted 12-01-2003 04:34:22 PM
almost?
(Insert Funny Phrase Here)
bob12121212
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 04:37:35 PM
I'm talking with her right now.... ^_^ I like the use and dispose theroy!

quote:
Aury had this to say about Cuba:
That almost suonds like an abusive relationship in the making.

Yeah just a bit eh? If her BF is going to be mad even if she talks to another guy ....

[ 12-01-2003: Message edited by: The Azure Knight ]

CBTao
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 04:45:11 PM
quote:
Bloodsage had this to say about Jimmy Carter:
Anyone who actually writes e-mail like that is beneath contempt--nay!--beneath notice.

Find someone with a multisyllabic vocabulary; you'll be happier in the long run. On the other hand, if your intentions are strictly dishonorable: pursue, catch, use, discard. Rinse and repeat until bored.


-falls down in worship-

Palador ChibiDragon
Dismembered
posted 12-01-2003 04:54:19 PM
Forget the girl, and go after the boyfriend?

Seriously, if she has a BF and doesn't want to break up with him, then don't go after her.

I believe in the existance of magic, not because I have seen proof of its existance, but because I refuse to live in a world where it does not exist.
Palador ChibiDragon
Dismembered
posted 12-01-2003 04:56:02 PM
quote:
The Azure Knight had this to say about the Spice Girls:
I'm talking with her right now.... ^_^ I like the use and dispose theroy!

Yeah just a bit eh? If her BF is going to be mad even if she talks to another guy ....


No, she said that if her BF did that to her, SHE would be mad. Sounds like she's refusing to do to her BF something she wouldn't want him to do to her.

I believe in the existance of magic, not because I have seen proof of its existance, but because I refuse to live in a world where it does not exist.
Mr. Parcelan
posted 12-01-2003 04:57:32 PM
You'd be a complete imbecile for pursuing this.

If her boyfriend doesn't kick your ass, he'll kick hers, and it'll be all your fault. Even if your intentions are dishonorable, if you just used her and left her, she'd probably wind up severely beaten.

So screw it. Move on. You're done.

D Spot
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 05:16:50 PM
quote:
Mr. Parcelan obviously shouldn't have said:
You'd be a complete imbecile for pursuing this.

If her boyfriend doesn't kick your ass, he'll kick hers, and it'll be all your fault. Even if your intentions are dishonorable, if you just used her and left her, she'd probably wind up severely beaten.

So screw it. Move on. You're done.


Hehe... I was just about to say something like that.

Black
The Outlaw Torn
posted 12-01-2003 05:19:41 PM
quote:
But Dspot doesn't really care for music, do you?
Hehe... I was just about to say something like that.
Are you sure you were about to say something like that? Or were you about to say something about... Nothing?


Time was never on my side.
So on I wait my whole lifetime.

bob12121212
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 05:31:16 PM
Well, my intentions aren't totaly BAD. I do want to have a relationship with her. Maybe, I should just stay her friend and wait until her BF screws up and then take my chance.....
D Spot
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 05:32:48 PM
quote:
Black had this to say about pies:
Are you sure you were about to say something like that? Or were you about to say something about... Nothing?

now that you ask, I was really going to say something like "I snogged your mom last night" but that was totally off topic.

Delphi Aegis
Delphi. That's right. The oracle. Ask me anything. Anything about your underwear.
posted 12-01-2003 05:34:46 PM
One of my higher up rules is that you don't chase after a girl with a boyfriend. You wait until they break up, then be a consoling force.

Doing anything else is uncivilized.

bob12121212
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 05:37:03 PM
quote:
Delphi Aegis spewed forth this undeniable truth:
One of my higher up rules is that you don't chase after a girl with a boyfriend. You wait until they break up, then be a consoling force.

Doing anything else is uncivilized.



I think that is a good idea. Now another question, How exactly do you go about flirting effectivly?

Delphi Aegis
Delphi. That's right. The oracle. Ask me anything. Anything about your underwear.
posted 12-01-2003 05:39:33 PM
quote:
The Azure Knight got all f'ed up on Angel Dust and wrote:
I think that is a good idea. Now another question, How exactly do you go about flirting effectivly?

You don't.

Ever.

You're a friend and nothing else ever until she's not taken.

That's my opinion, though. And I've been flamed an assload for it (For odd reasons..)

Mr. Parcelan
posted 12-01-2003 05:39:38 PM
Delphi's advice is always poor when it comes to women; today is no exception.

Waiting until she breaks up and then consoling her is a sure way to get into the "friends" zone. You will forever be branded as being a shoulder to cry on. Bad idea.

Just ignore her for now. When she breaks up, play it cool, and learn how to make your move.

Flirting just sort of happens. No real planning for it.

bob12121212
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 05:42:38 PM
Now who's advice do I take? Hmm.... I guess staying friends is okay for now, but SHE is taking the initiative (sorry if it is spelled wrong) to talk to me. Does that make a difference? And I didn't ask her to go out with me, I only asked her if she wanted to do somthing some time after school....

quote:
Mr. Parcelan's unholy Backstreet Boys obsession manifested in:
Delphi's advice is always poor when it comes to women; today is no exception.

Waiting until she breaks up and then consoling her is a sure way to get into the "friends" zone. You will forever be branded as being a shoulder to cry on. Bad idea.

Just ignore her for now. When she breaks up, play it cool, and learn how to make your move.

Flirting just sort of happens. No real planning for it.


And where can I "learn how to make my move"?

[ 12-01-2003: Message edited by: The Azure Knight ]

Mr. Parcelan
posted 12-01-2003 05:45:08 PM
Well, just because she talks to you doesn't mean she likes you, dig?

Play it cool, G. Keep interested in other girls, or you're in for a world of kicking yourself in the ass and me laughing at you in the future.

As to making your move, it just sort of happens. No real way to plan for it.

[ 12-01-2003: Message edited by: Mr. Parcelan ]

bob12121212
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 05:47:08 PM
I understand. That sucks though, her having a BF. DAMN IT!
Cresent
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 05:52:26 PM
This is what you should do, keep getting close to her so she can become intrested in you, and if they ever break up she has someone to go to.
"This world is made of Love and Peace"
Mr. Parcelan
posted 12-01-2003 05:55:54 PM
quote:
The Azure Knight had this to say about Tron:
I understand. That sucks though, her having a BF. DAMN IT!

Can't do nothing about it, so just chill.

Synjari
Warrior Princess
Cookie Seraphim!
posted 12-01-2003 05:56:42 PM
You all crack me up

Though I agree with Sage.. good god reading her little email hurt my brain. People who cannot even make efforts to spell out simple words grate at my very being.. but thats just me.

[ 12-01-2003: Message edited by: Synjari ]

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Blindy.
Suicide (Also: Gay.)
posted 12-01-2003 06:49:40 PM
quote:
The Azure Knight was naked while typing this:
Well, my intentions aren't totaly BAD. I do want to have a relationship with her. Maybe, I should just stay her friend and wait until her BF screws up and then take my chance.....

DANGER WILL ROBINSON!

That shit works 1 time in 30.
Best to just talk to her once in a blue moon until they break up.

Steven Steve
posted 12-01-2003 07:12:12 PM
So wait, she has a boyfriend and you want to have a "relaaaaaationship" with her? For one thing, she's dumb as a brick, for another thing, her boyfriend could probably snap you like a twig, and lastly, you apparently don't have a chance anyway - if she isn't the one hanging off of you, then it's not going to happen. Move along.
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Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 07:12:57 PM
She has a boyfriend = find someone else.
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bob12121212
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 08:28:14 PM
Its like that comercial....

I've fallen (in love) and can't get up.....

Mr. Parcelan
posted 12-01-2003 08:30:55 PM
quote:
The Azure Knight was naked while typing this:
Its like that comercial....

I've fallen (in love) and can't get up.....


Wrong again, slapnuts. You're too young to fall in love.

It's just a crush, kid. Get over it.

bob12121212
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 08:33:16 PM
I know but still.... Doesn't all love start out as a crush?
Mr. Gainsborough
posted 12-01-2003 08:34:27 PM
quote:
The Azure Knight's unholy Backstreet Boys obsession manifested in:
I know but still.... Doesn't all love start out as a crush?

I thought it started with money.

[ 12-01-2003: Message edited by: Mr. Gainsborough ]

Mr. Parcelan
posted 12-01-2003 08:35:31 PM
quote:
The Azure Knight had this to say about Matthew Broderick:
I know but still.... Doesn't all love start out as a crush?

When it's love, you'll know it. So long as your dick has anything to say about it, you'll fall in "love" with about forty or so girls in your life.

Snugglits
I LIKE TO ABUSE THE ALERT MOD BUTTON AND I ENJOY THE FLAVOR OF SWEET SWEET COCK.
posted 12-01-2003 08:36:17 PM
Ewwww what smells in here? oh, it's just azure knight's desperateness.

Take a shower, man.

Seriously, I don't really even believe in love. I think if it did exist, you wouldn't know until after being with the person for a while. Otherwise, it's infatuation.

[ 12-01-2003: Message edited by: Oscar 3/Xray 1 ]

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BetaTested
Not gay, but loves the cock!
posted 12-01-2003 08:45:39 PM
quote:
Mr. Parcelan's account was hax0red to write:
When it's love, you'll know it. So long as your dick has anything to say about it, you'll fall in "love" with about forty or so girls in your life.

He's right. As much as I dislike Parce, I've gotta agree with him. Don't persue this chick. She's going to be a headache and you're going to get NOTHING out of it. Move along. Hell, just ask some chick out that sits next to you in class, you'd be supprised, maybe one of them will take you up on it.


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Mr. Parcelan
posted 12-01-2003 09:07:08 PM
quote:
BetaTested wrote, obviously thinking too hard:
He's right. As much as I dislike Parce

What the hell'd I ever do to you, swill?

bob12121212
Pancake
posted 12-01-2003 09:21:43 PM
Thanks dudes. I'll just leave her alone. I mean, nothing good can come from it anyway...
Gunslinger Moogle
No longer a gimmick
posted 12-01-2003 09:36:34 PM
Why is it that several normally good spellers followed Azure's lead and mispelled 'pursue'?



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Zeke
I am a vampire and
posted 12-01-2003 10:11:42 PM
First off I would like to say that my advice on women is...bad.

After that I would agree with several others here. This doesn't sound like it means as much to you as it would if it were love, she's incredibly retarded, her boyfriend can probably kick your ass and will do so without a second thought and without much of one to cockslapping her as well, and there's plenty of stupid SINGLE hot women near you I assume so just pick a different one. That of course is assuming her stupid is indirectly proportional to her hot and if it is she's probably quite nice to look at but still...

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Ryuujin
posted 12-01-2003 10:14:45 PM
quote:
Mr. Parcelan stopped staring at Deedlit long enough to write:
What the hell'd I ever do to you, swill?

You pissed in his tequila, remember?

Mr. Parcelan
posted 12-01-2003 10:20:07 PM
quote:
Verily, Kahuna Ryuu doth proclaim:
You pissed in his tequila, remember?

I pee on your face constantly while you sleep, but you seem pretty okay.

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