At this point, I'm not too certain where the line between reason and insecurity is; my perspective on what a healthy relationship is is very skewed as most of the examples I've had throughout my life have not been such. I know this is a lot to ask, but I'm not too certain where else to turn. What I'm looking for specifically is someone I can hit up on AIM/IRC/MSN/insertmessengerhere now and then to discuss the maunderings of my addled brain. The goal is to dispel insecurities, doubts, foolishness, and ignorance.
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the beans of Java the thoughts aquire speed, the teeth acquire stains, the stains become a warning. It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.
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Did they say why, Kuroi Madoushi, why they want you to terminate my command?
The goal is to dispel insecurities, doubts, foolishness, and ignorance.
The only way to do this is through experience. No amount of talking will help as much as simply biting the bullet.
It's not something people hear about.
...stop thinking about it, get off the internet, and go do something productive.
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Sean had this to say about John Romero:
The only way to do this is through experience. No amount of talking will help as much as simply biting the bullet.
The School of Hard Knocks is certainly the best teacher, but it's good to learn some things vicariously as well. At the very least, it offers some small ability to forsee problems or at least some modicum of knowledge in how to deal with them when they come. This is the sort of thing I'm after.
Obviously simply discussing matters with someone isn't going to meet my goal, it's intended to be an aid along the way.
As for Alidane's advice: doing that whenever possible, but it doesn't help much with the other 90% of the relationship. Nothing is down in the dumps at this point, I've just realized that I know next to nothing about being in a relationship and I'm looking for knowledge.
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the beans of Java the thoughts aquire speed, the teeth acquire stains, the stains become a warning. It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.
But really, you need to get out there and experiance it for yourself to know what YOU want in a relationship. Fuck the norms, man, look for what you want, not what everyone else wants.
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BetaTested said this about your mom:
Trust is key. If you can fake that, you're in.
1. Blowing smoke up some girl's ass so she will give you head
2. Finding a girl similar to you that you can get along well with
So by deductive reasoning, make yourself a better person so you get along well with excellent girls... Then blow smoke up their asses.
"Don't want to sound like a fanboy, but I am with you. I'll buy it for sure, it's just a matter of for how long I will be playing it..."
- Silvast, Battle.net forums
Ask her if she'll suck your dick. If she does, you're in good shape.
