*Rages with the power of nine hells*Here is whats happening. For the past few weeks I've been dating this girl from work, my parents know about her and they are fine, her parents don't know about us. Today, her mom found a note that I wrote to her, and they declared we are never to see each. Her mom has also declared we can't go to prom together either unless she goes back out with an ex-boyfriend. I don't pariculary care for this guy, not anything really wrong with him, he just seems like too much of the stereotypical male, football player athlete. Just to put the icing on the cake, also if she doesn't go out with this guy I'm not allowed to even give her rides home from school work or anywhere.
Anger rage and saddness aren't even the beginings to describe what I feel. Blind and utter violent rage might come close, but utter depression is another close one. To top it off the ex found out about it and making movies towards my now Ex I guess. I fucking hate this.
Now if I were in any form of the right state of mind I might just elaborate one this, but as it stands, I'm about ready to destroy a small province, so I'm gonna end it here.
Step 2: ....
Step 3: Profit.
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Mortious had this to say about the Spice Girls:
Step 1: Ignore her parents.Step 2: ....
Step 3: Profit.
Very hard to ignore her parents when she is still 17 and is forced to live under their house and their rules, she doesn't turn 18 for another 6 months.
It worked in the Dark Ages.
Parents like that need a good kick in the teeth to show them that they can't control their kids fucking lives. They need to realize kids will make mistakes and learn from them. I'm not saying anything bad about you I'm just saying parents need to let go and let their children make their own choices in life. After a certain age of coarse 
kay maybe this made sense
Waisz fucked around with this message on 05-05-2004 at 11:32 PM.
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Dr Cysa had this to say about John Romero:
I hate this, I don't like the thought of losing this girl, and I'm gonna have a fucking talk with her parents.
I suggest calming down and introducing yourself as a gentleman, not some deranged pissed off fellow.
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Jania Arindelil thought about the meaning of life:
Which begs the question, why are you bothering with her in the first place?
I assume she was the only one to say yes. Snoota fucked around with this message on 05-05-2004 at 11:48 PM.
This bothers me greatly cause out of all the women I have met so far in my life, she is one of a very select few, I have actually been attracted to and had feelings for. To me giving up someone you care about isn't easy, I don't know if you guys just feel otherwise but whatever then.
Dr Cysa fucked around with this message on 05-06-2004 at 12:09 AM.
I understand that some of you are not yet 18 and that just as many(maybe more) are over 18, but doing stuff their your parents don't want you to do is hard. Especially going to a prom. I have spent over $700 so far and I told her I would cancel everything if thats what it takes for me to keep her. I'm sorry if I'm not in my best humor right now but a situation like this seems to just suck it right out of me.
It's actually kinda romantic and clandestine. Sneaking into her room late at night to shag, making up elaborate ruses to take her out on dates. It's great.
Plus when she's no longer dependent on her parents you can let them know that you've been fooling around behind their backs. Teach them a good ol' life lesson about being unnesscessarily controlling, manipulative assholes.
I've been there, amigo. It sucks, but it happens.
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Mr. Parcelan had this to say about Robocop:
Her mom didn't do it. She's not interested in you anymore and made up something to get rid of you easily.I've been there, amigo. It sucks, but it happens.
Actually the 'best' (closest? something like that) couple that I know has one set of parents that's completely against the entire ordeal. So, he leaves the house at night and goes out with her past midnight. On school nights.
edit: Grammar = Kegwen fucked around with this message on 05-06-2004 at 12:30 AM.
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Kegwen wrote this stupid crap:
Actually the 'best' (closest? something like that) couple that I know has one set of parents that's completely against the entire ordeal. So, he leaves the house at night and goes out with her past midnight. On school nights.edit: Grammar =
Past midnight?!
MEIN GOTT!
in the meantime bone up on stalking laws in your area in case they decided to get nasty
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Blindy. obviously shouldn't have said:
what the hell was on that note?
Your title.
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Mr. Parcelan had this to say about (_|_):
Her mom didn't do it. She's not interested in you anymore and made up something to get rid of you easily.I've been there, amigo. It sucks, but it happens.
Yep yep, I agree. Have you told her yet that you want to talk to her parents about this? If she panics, that'll give you your next clue. I think she's just too chicken to tell you she doesn't want to see you again, and she's using her "evil mean parents" as a way of doing it.
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Gravity'sAngel said this about your mom:
Yep yep, I agree. Have you told her yet that you want to talk to her parents about this? If she panics, that'll give you your next clue. I think she's just too chicken to tell you she doesn't want to see you again, and she's using her "evil mean parents" as a way of doing it.
hey parents are not mean or evil they are mearly concerned and out of touch
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the beans of Java the thoughts aquire speed, the teeth acquire stains, the stains become a warning. It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.
... like mine.
I know what she and you are going through, I can definetly say I've been there myself.
Some parents are too controlling - and the consequences of coming up against them are more severe than if you were caught sneaking around.
some girls (like me) just can't, because they're too afraid to say no... usually because of what's happened after the fact in the past.
Just try to talk to her parents yourself, calmly, rationally, and explain what's happening and why you feel the way you do.
Don't lose your temper, Don't cry, and say what's in your .
Your mistake is that you started "sneaking around". I did that same thing with my last relationship and to this day I regret having started it like that. I'd go into it, but I don't feel like ranting.
In any case, good luck with your girlfriend, I hope everything goes well.
I called her today and her mom answered, and bitched me out for 5 minutes. So much for the theory that its not her mom. today when I did get to talk to her, we decided to keep at it, but in secret. Also the thing that I put in the note that the mom didn't like was the phrase: "cuddle time" in which I was refering to the little bit of time before and after work that we have to relax together. Her mom immediately thought we were having sex and is furious.
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Dr Cysa had this to say about Optimus Prime:
Hi for those of you who believe you have it all figured out, guess what? your wrong!I called her today and her mom answered, and bitched me out for 5 minutes. So much for the theory that its not her mom. today when I did get to talk to her, we decided to keep at it, but in secret. Also the thing that I put in the note that the mom didn't like was the phrase: "cuddle time" in which I was refering to the little bit of time before and after work that we have to relax together. Her mom immediately thought we were having sex and is furious.
Just keep it clean.
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Dr Cysa had this to say about Duck Tales:
Hi for those of you who believe you have it all figured out, guess what? your wrong!I called her today and her mom answered, and bitched me out for 5 minutes. So much for the theory that its not her mom. today when I did get to talk to her, we decided to keep at it, but in secret. Also the thing that I put in the note that the mom didn't like was the phrase: "cuddle time" in which I was refering to the little bit of time before and after work that we have to relax together. Her mom immediately thought we were having sex and is furious.
did you try to explain?
Not telling you to strangle her with wire just yet, but I'd flat out tell her that if she gives in to what her parents supposedly want she can go straight to hell and double-check anything she says in the next 3 months as if it were an intercept from Osama to a dynamite sheep manufacturer.
Let's start a pool.
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Y.O.T.C had this to say about Knight Rider:
Ahem, when you meet her in person, wear the pimp hat. It might fuck the whole thing up, but it would be soooooooooooo worth it for the look on her face.
They don't get that big a kick out of it. Chicks dig a tophat, though.
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Dr Cysa painfully thought these words up:
I have spent over $700 so far and I told her I would cancel everything if thats what it takes for me to keep her.
HOLY FUCk
tis times like this im glad neither me or my girlfriend care bout goign to a prom
and for that matter, im even galdder that my moms very understanding and shes old enough it doesnt matter how fucken isnane her mom is
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Mr. Parcelan had this to say about pies:
They don't get that big a kick out of it. Chicks dig a tophat, though.
His hat is pretty fucking cool. 
