Should it be expected that after an orally induced orgasm that the favour be returned, or is it more of a free gift that needs only thanks? Should the partners initiate the sexual activity equally or does one party have to be the aggressor the majority of the time?
How much reciprocity and equality is expected in a sexual relationship?
Who's turn is it to get the top? Who got the handcuffs last time? Who orgasmed last? "Just don't fucking worry about it."
Do whatever feels right at the moment. Only worry if one of you starts to become dissatisfied, I, personally, would take immediate action to satisfy them. And I do mean immediate - if they express this dissatisfaction in a restaraunt, the nearest back seat, men's room, or broom closet will suffice. In a nice hotel? Hotels have elevators with stop buttons.
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Maradon the Dumbleton still thinks SARS jokes are topical, as evidenced by:
Hotels have elevators with stop buttons.
And cameras. Although I doubt the security guys would call the cops for the first seven minutes or so.
Under capitalism, man exploits man. Under communism, it's just the opposite. - John Kenneth Galbraith
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And cameras. Although I doubt the security guys would call the cops for the first seven minutes or so.
teeheehee.
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Karnaj enlisted the help of an infinite number of monkeys to write:
And cameras. Although I doubt the security guys would call the cops for the first seven minutes or so.
Duct tape is opaque, you know
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And now, we sprinkle Maradon the Dumbleton liberally with Old Spice!
Duct tape is opaque, you know
I don't think it'll block sound(if they have microphones, which probably not many do). And if you've got the elevator stopped, and you're properly ringing her bell, they're gonna hear it.
Under capitalism, man exploits man. Under communism, it's just the opposite. - John Kenneth Galbraith
sigpic courtesy of This Guy, original modified by me
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And I was all like 'Oh yeah?' and A_Blindy_005 was all like:
Give what you want to give. If that isn't enough then they'll let you know.
Blindy actually said something that makes sense. Go, Blindy!
Relationships are a balance of giving and taking. If you are giving in other areas that your partner appreciates, then you don't have anything to worry about. If you're not doing this, then you've got problems.
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Maradon the Dumbleton had this to say about Optimus Prime:
Duct tape is opaque, you know
I have two VERY VERY fucking bright LEDs on the front of my tower. They were BURNING MY EYES OH CHRIST OW, and rather then poke back into my motherboard to remove them entirely, I decided to put a peice of tape over the transferring part (Where the tower opens up) to block the light.
One peice of tape later, and it's still BRIGHT OH GOD MY EYES. Five peices later, and it's subdued, but not entirely gone.
Thus, it is not opaque, but would be to a camera in terms of recognizing images. I just wanted to use that story, to be honest.
As far as the topic: If it's a "one to one ratio", then it's all good. But I'd endevour to make that ratio much, much better for her, should the opportunity arise.
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Delphi Aegis had this to say about Punky Brewster:
I have two VERY VERY fucking bright LEDs on the front of my tower. They were BURNING MY EYES OH CHRIST OW, and rather then poke back into my motherboard to remove them entirely, I decided to put a peice of tape over the transferring part (Where the tower opens up) to block the light.One peice of tape later, and it's still BRIGHT OH GOD MY EYES. Five peices later, and it's subdued, but not entirely gone.
Thus, it is not opaque, but would be to a camera in terms of recognizing images. I just wanted to use that story, to be honest.
As far as the topic: If it's a "one to one ratio", then it's all good. But I'd endevour to make that ratio much, much better for her, should the opportunity arise.
the ratio, as it stands, is about 150~200 to 0.
Guess who's on the short end of that deal. (she's "Intimidated" by "Alexander the Great")
It's not that I don't enjoy what I do for her, I do, and I gladly give her that, it's just that sometimes (well, a lot of the time) I want a little too, and I WON'T demand it from her, if she won't give it to me, then I don't get any.
No, Really. Bite me.
Under capitalism, man exploits man. Under communism, it's just the opposite. - John Kenneth Galbraith
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BurgerMeister had this to say about pies:
Guess who's on the short end of that deal. (she's "Intimidated" by "Alexander the Great")
Kinda makes you wish you had a tiny dick like me, eh?
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Karnaj wrote this then went back to looking for porn:
69ing's the way to go then. If you ring her bell properly, she'll go to town on you. After all, that's the point of 69ing: Instant reciprocity.
He makes a good point.
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BurgerMeister must think they're pretty smart:
the ratio, as it stands, is about 150~200 to 0.Guess who's on the short end of that deal. (she's "Intimidated" by "Alexander the Great")
It's not that I don't enjoy what I do for her, I do, and I gladly give her that, it's just that sometimes (well, a lot of the time) I want a little too, and I WON'T demand it from her, if she won't give it to me, then I don't get any.
Some women just cant orgasm at first. I bet you 20 bucks she doesn't masturbate either.
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Everyone wondered WTF when A_Blindy_005 wrote:
Some women just cant orgasm at first. I bet you 20 bucks she doesn't masturbate either.
wrong way around.
I go down on her all the time, but she has yet to offer to do the same for me.
I'm just wondering how much of a bad person it makes me to really get annoyed after 6 months of this...
I enjoy what we do, but I also enjoy recieving a little every now and again.
No, Really. Bite me.
well just cover your dick with peanut butter. worked with my dog.
