I know what it feels like. Long story short: All the money I've been trying to save up for me and Tam is now gone plus more... A LOT more... because of them.
Shit happens I guess... but how is it possible for my own parents to screw me so royally before we can start our new life. Why them?
my mother gave me about $1600 for my HS graduation to go through college with, I went away for my summer vacation, when I came back, my father had wiped my account to feed his crack addiction.
I hope he dies a slow and painful death.
Three days before they moved the money he had saved up was gone to help "pay for the move". [ 08-19-2003: Message edited by: Cool Hand Luke ]
What happened man?
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Everyone wondered WTF when Reynar wrote:
??What happened man?
I got them something that they had to pay monthly. They ran up the bill really ass high, then have not paid it since March/April. I just found out about it a few days ago. I tried working with them on it, but it is "my problem" now. My mom is intercepting the late bill notifications, then the collections notifications. I thought the bill was paid up because well, I didnt see anything that said otherwise. I'd ask her and she'd always tell me dont worry about it, it is taken care of. Well.. it just came back and bitch slapped me.. hard.
I dont make much, so saving money is really hard for me. Luckily I just found out that my dad has been stashing a little money for awhile now. Putting it towards important things that HAD to be paid. He just gave me some of the money back. He said he would try his best to pay the rest back, but it may take awhile. Not to mention the obvious reprecussions of not paying a bill for the last 5 or so months is on MY credit now.
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I got them something that they had to pay monthly. They ran up the bill really ass high, then have not paid it since March/April. I just found out about it a few days ago. I tried working with them on it, but it is "my problem" now. My mom is intercepting the late bill notifications, then the collections notifications. I thought the bill was paid up because well, I didnt see anything that said otherwise. I'd ask her and she'd always tell me dont worry about it, it is taken care of. Well.. it just came back and bitch slapped me.. hard.I dont make much, so saving money is really hard for me. Luckily I just found out that my dad has been stashing a little money for awhile now. Putting it towards important things that HAD to be paid. He just gave me some of the money back. He said he would try his best to pay the rest back, but it may take awhile. Not to mention the obvious reprecussions of not paying a bill for the last 5 or so months is on MY credit now.
Wow...
I'm glad to hear that at least your dad is being somewhat responsible with this issue.
I really hope it works out for you in the end man, you've got a strong will and I think you'll do pretty good for yourself in life once you can get outta that house.
Doesn't help that I get min wage and the canadian dollar sucks royally.
My god... someone needs to make her go away. My mom just came in here yelling at me because I'm writing Tam a letter about what happened. Yall want to see a quote from the letter?
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Anyway, dont worry about it just yet. I still managed to pay all of my bills for this month so we are in the clear. With the insurance going down and the blahcreditcard card paid off it will help offset the loss. We are still very much a float money-wise, we just have X amount less for the move. I guess the LazyBoy with have to wait a few more months huh?This is a small bump, nothing we cannot handle.
Oh.. but my mom swears up and down that I am telling Tam how horrible of a person she is. GUESS WHAT MOM! I dont have to tell her, she already knows. She's had to listen to you over the phone for almost 2 years now. Telling her to leave me because I'm such an awful person. Calling me a wife beater and a worthless SoB, funny, I've never raised a hand in anger towards another person in my life outside of my brothers whom I will punish since you dont, but I'm still fair and do not hurt them like you do. Thanks for making me do all of your dirty work over the years mom. Thankfully though, my brothers saw that and have WAY more respect for me then they do you. Tam has had to watch you mom. Act like the god damn moron that you are. She knows you are wrong just as much as everyone else around you does. Guess what mom... You cannot have Tamara... Tamara is mine and I am hers. You cannot have that. You may get what you want out of my sister and her slut fiancee, but you wont have any part of what me and Tam have. None. And I know damn well it eats you alive to know that you cannot have it.
And just to let you know mom... What happens to me IS Tam's business. She is going to be my wife and I WILL NOT hide things from her. If you fuck up and it involves me, I will tell Tam because Tam needs to know. Because when something effects me, it effects her. She is soon to be my wife and I am her husband, communication is key. I will not hide things from my wife.
You are a fuck up mom, simple as that. You may not beable to fix your life, but god damn it, I am fixing mine.
I wanted so bad not to leave on bad terms with her. But it looks like it is going to happen regardless of my efforts.
At the very least, you can hit them with mail tampering. Not allowing you to get those bills, if they were addressed to you, is tampering with the United States Mail. It's not a crime taken lightly.
As for your mom... Dear god, I don't see how you can put up with her. You need to do something about her interfereing with your life like this.
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If your mom took letters addressed to you, thats a fed crime right? You might be able to file a police report and show the company that. It might help.
Exactly what I was getting at, it's a federal offense. He gets the law on his side, and things might be a little easier to fix.
Assuming those letters were addressed to him, he can get out of this. His mother will get a whole load of shit dropped on her, though.
And CBTao, Snoota, why did the parents even have access to such accounts?
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Slayer Densetsu probably says this to all the girls:
Dude...Pesco...And CBTao, Snoota, why did the parents even have access to such accounts?
It could be that the account had been established when they were still a minor, and they hadn't bothered to change the ownership around...
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Kegwen thought this was the Ricky Martin Fan Club Forum and wrote:
It could be that the account had been established when they were still a minor, and they hadn't bothered to change the ownership around...
Yah, one of my friends mom's had a college account set aside for him with like 6gs. 2 days before the account was his, she changed the ownership to hers alone and kept the money herself.
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WHAT THE FUCK...My god... someone needs to make her go away. My mom just came in here yelling at me because I'm writing Tam a letter about what happened. Yall want to see a quote from the letter?
Oh.. but my mom swears up and down that I am telling Tam how horrible of a person she is. GUESS WHAT MOM! I dont have to tell her, she already knows. She's had to listen to you over the phone for almost 2 years now. Telling her to leave me because I'm such an awful person. Calling me a wife beater and a worthless SoB, funny, I've never raised a hand in anger towards another person in my life outside of my brothers whom I will punish since you dont, but I'm still fair and do not hurt them like you do. Thanks for making me do all of your dirty work over the years mom. Thankfully though, my brothers saw that and have WAY more respect for me then they do you. Tam has had to watch you mom. Act like the god damn moron that you are. She knows you are wrong just as much as everyone else around you does. Guess what mom... You cannot have Tamara... Tamara is mine and I am hers. You cannot have that. You may get what you want out of my sister and her slut fiancee, but you wont have any part of what me and Tam have. None. And I know damn well it eats you alive to know that you cannot have it.
And just to let you know mom... What happens to me IS Tam's business. She is going to be my wife and I WILL NOT hide things from her. If you fuck up and it involves me, I will tell Tam because Tam needs to know. Because when something effects me, it effects her. She is soon to be my wife and I am her husband, communication is key. I will not hide things from my wife.
You are a fuck up mom, simple as that. You may not beable to fix your life, but god damn it, I am fixing mine.
I wanted so bad not to leave on bad terms with her. But it looks like it is going to happen regardless of my efforts.
On a fraction of a scale in seriousness, my sister and I, in the years before she left for college, fought to the point of tears almost daily. It was brutal. But after she moved out...everything was so much easier. Now her and I keep in contact, and do tons of stuff together.
Hey, you have to yank the arrow out of the wound before it can heal. (your mother being the arrow). Given a few months without you, hopefully she will be less dependent on you, and realize she doesn't have that safety net anymore. A good wake-up call can do that.
And I know others have said this....but DAMN! You sir, have balls. 
I admire your strength, and wish you all the best. I'll keep you in my thoughts, and I will continue to try to add my (not-quite-great) help.
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Last time I vented like that on my mom for bitching at me daily it put her in a mental ward for a day. Watch what you say, shrinks are expensive.
If you've read Pesco's past posts about his mom, you'd know she really does need to be put in a mental ward for a while.
I'm sorry your mother tried to screw up your life again, Pesco. <hugs Pesco> Glad your dad is stepping up to take some responsibility though.
Invite everyone to the wedding except your mom.
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Hey kids, it's howdy-Liamdy time!
Hey Pesco:Invite everyone to the wedding except your mom.
novel idea. do it.
