Why is it a contest? Im sorry, but that sounds so silly, in my opinion.
But eh, what happens, will happen. Time shall tell, influence it as you see fit 
It sounds like someone else gets to make the important call, though. Let her decide, and deal with what comes after, when it happens. (Maybe?)
She'll get the idea.
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Check out the big brain on Jessie!
What do I do?
Well for starters you could give a bit more information in a clearer way, I had to read through that four times before I understood what your basic problem was.
Anywho, I'd say go for Barbara. If she likes you, and you love her, then you both are happy. The alternative is that Barb goes with Win, which makes Win happy, but you wouldn't be, and Barb wouldn't be as happy. Therefore:
Your happiness + Barb's happiness > Win's uber-happiness + Barb's contentedness + your singleness
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Maradon XP painfully thought these words up:
Get a tee-shirt that reads "I Like The Cock".She'll get the idea.
I support this.
