Yeah or Neah?
I'm kinda torn on this one. She seems to have matured a bit since we broke up, and I know I've changed a bit, but I'm still not sure I could make this one work, given how busy we will both be over the next couple of months...
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Don Parcelan had this to say about Punky Brewster:
There's no option for you to die...
*presses the button to enact the option for you to die*
She came over saturday to catch up and get drunk. Ended up spending the night in my bed, we didn't do anything just the old snuggle snug (it's cold in my house)
She's single, and has stated about 40 times since this that she had "a ton of fun, thanks for the good time", which i can only interpeit as "Why are you taking so long to ask me out you complete fucking idiot" in girl talk.
so i ask you, what shall i do? [ 12-10-2002: Message edited by: Blindy ]
Blindy, I think you'd be doing it to feel better about yourself. Feel better about yourself first, then date.
Trust me when I say it works wonders.
Thinking about your posts
(and billing you for it) since 2001
No, Really. Bite me.
She came back to you, which is a good sign. Keep an open mind, but not so open the wind blows through it.
Good luck, dude.
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How.... Judge Gydyon.... uughhhhhh:
To paraphrase Billy Crystal from When Harry met Sally, "You would not be good for anyone right now."Blindy, I think you'd be doing it to feel better about yourself. Feel better about yourself first, then date.
Trust me when I say it works wonders.
I believe that Gydyon speaks the truth.
If it's the latter, no. It never does any good to be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship; the shallow beginning never really deepens.
If it's the former...maybe. It looks like there's some unresoved issues between you two, else this wouldn't exactly be a question; perhaps you two should sit down and talk about it and your feelings. Both of you honestly speak what you feel and go from there.
Either way, don't blindly (no pun intended) jump in.
I'll just try to pay attention to the way she makes me feel.
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Blindy stopped staring at Deedlit long enough to write:
I've decided to take her on a few dates to see if I really want to get back with her or if I'm just looking at this as a chance to be in another relationship.I'll just try to pay attention to the way she makes me feel.
Ahh wisdom from one so young... If I knew back then what I know now... *almost gets angsty*
Rebound is fun fun fun. Give it a chance, of course, but just...I dunno.
[ 12-10-2002: Message edited by: Lyinar Ka`Bael ]
Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin
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Kaglaaz How'ler had this to say about (_|_):
Ahh wisdom from one so young... If I knew back then what I know now... *almost gets angsty*
why does everyone think i'm so young?
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Blindy had this to say about Tron:
why does everyone think i'm so young?
You look young.
Under capitalism, man exploits man. Under communism, it's just the opposite. - John Kenneth Galbraith
Thinking about your posts
(and billing you for it) since 2001
However, if you can stay just friends, then do so. Someday you'll both meet people that you want to spend your life with. Maybe it will be each other, maybe it won't. But, if you have to force it or rush it, then it's not really happening at all.
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Judge Gydyon stopped beating up furries long enough to write:
I think you should wait. I just wanted to say that again because you appear to be not listening.
Gydyon, it's been a little more than a month and a half since i broke up with susie, and we only went out for 7 months. She made a big impact on me, sure, but I'm pretty sure I'm over it. I just let myself fall in head over heals with her, and when it came time to say goodbye, I found myself unwilling and unable to let her go as quickly as she was able to let me go. That's the part that hurt me the most- but putting it all in perspective, our relationship wasn't all that good. Sure Susie was a great girlfriend, she tried very hard to be thoughtful and caring for me, but when I look back on it, I realize that my heart wasn't in it from the moment she went to college on. Our relationship became nothing but me comming down to her school and us fooling around, and what wonderful feelings we had for eachother faded away to just lust and an unwillingness to admit that we both made a mistake. Now that I can look back on what happened and see this, I've been able to put her behind me and I'm ready to move on.
I do still recognize the possibility that I am just looking to be in another relationship- And because of this I plan to date her casually for a while to see what feelings a relationship with her might bring about.
Thank you for your advice though, I do value it, reguardless of weither or not I choose to follow it.
