i say cool, and busy myself talking to my own boyfriend..er.."as close as one can get without actually being official and stuff".. yeah..long story. we dote on each other for awhile, and soon it's 1 am, he goes to bed, i'm still awake. i pop on. "dude, you gunna be done soon?"
"gimme a little bit, we should be done soon."
"fine. let me know."
i go in the other room and play animal crossing for awhile. (you were right. the game is fun 30 minutes at a time.) HEEEEEEERE comes 2:30! i'm getting pretty bloody tired by this point. i go in my room,
and FINALLY, he's ready to go. too bad, bub. you missed the train. i'm ready to get to bed now.
he gets all pissy, and says to forget it, he'll go hike somewhere and get food, etc.. and generally makes me feel shitty.
so, friends of EC, i ask you this:
was i right for deciding that he chose his priorities, and food wasn't among them?
or should i have caved and taken him anyway, even though i was (and am) half asleep?
i leave this in your capable hands, oh jury of my *snerk* peers.
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aurywoof enlisted the help of an infinite number of monkeys to write:
"dude, you gunna be done soon?""gimme a little bit, we should be done soon."
You never asked me that, and I never said that.
If it was getting too late, you could have said so BEFORE I got dressed and was putting on my coat. I was having a really shitty day already, it would have been nice to have had a halfways descent ending to it. 
edit: PS, thanks for bringing this up here. I thought my mood couldn't get worse. [ 10-20-2002: Message edited by: Zephyer ]
I shamble in the door after a REALLY shitty day of work. Aury asks me if I want to go to IHOP after my boyfriend goes to bed. I say sure. Sounds like a chance to get a descent ending to a real bad day.
My boyfriend usually goes to bed at 1, but he stays up later on weekends...as long as Aury's know the both of us, he should've been aware of that. So, at 2 o'clock, I tell him I'm ready. I tell him again at 2:20. He says fine, I'll get dressed, and then, at 2:30, as I'm dressed and putting on my coat, "I can't go. I'm too tired. Sorry."
Isn't it understandable that I got upset?
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When the babel fish was in place, it was apparent Comrade Snoota said:
I always thought Aury WAS Zephy's boyfriend.
WAS is the keyword Snootster
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Everyone wondered WTF when Comrade Snoota wrote:
I always thought Aury WAS Zephy's boyfriend.
Ex, for several months now. Just close friends, now.
...but, even close friends have spats.
I'm watching Van Wilder. It's cheering me up.
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Zephyer's account was hax0red to write:
I'm watching Van Wilder. It's cheering me up.
That poor dog... hehehehe
Aury, if you knew he was going to be late, and you were in the same house (I thought it was online), you should have spoken up sooner, said you were getting tired and if he wanted to go, then you need to go soon.
Being ex's, I would think, you two know each other well enough to say something, and Zephy, it seems felt you knew him well enough to know he was going to be late.
I suggest you both shrug, promise to try avoiding that same problem again, and let it go.
Sometimes my roommate and I do stuff like that, and we get upset. But, we don't hold on to it, and we try to avoid doing it again. We know it happens though, and we just live with it.
