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Topic: It's over.
Mightion Defensor
posted 01-13-2002 10:23:23 AM
At about 7:15 AM this morning, my mom woke me up to tell me my grandmother had passed away a half hour before.

Her pain is over, and she can rest now.

She left very specific instructions - there is to be NO public wake, and the small family service she wanted will be closed-casket. She said she didn't want anyone staring at her while she was dead.

That's my grandma. She had a vain streak - while waiting for the ambulance to take her to the hospital, she took time to make sure her hair and makeup were all right, even though it turns out she was having a heart attack at the time.

I don't know when the services will be, but I DO know I don't own a suit that fits. She said I looked unnatural in a tux at my brother's wedding, anyway.

I love you Grandma. Say hi to God for me, and go find Barney (My dog). He'll be glad to see you.

Leaasa
posted 01-13-2002 10:24:25 AM
wimin r dum.
this profound wisdom brought to you by the one and only Delidgamond
Bajah
Thooooooor
posted 01-13-2002 10:25:53 AM
*hugs Might*
Nae
Fun with Chocolate
posted 01-13-2002 10:29:23 AM
Oh Mightion, I am so sorry.
Palador ChibiDragon
Dismembered
posted 01-13-2002 10:32:38 AM
I believe in the existance of magic, not because I have seen proof of its existance, but because I refuse to live in a world where it does not exist.
Mightion Defensor
posted 01-13-2002 10:35:20 AM
quote:
Illanae impressed everyone with:
Oh Mightion, I am so sorry.

Like I just said in IRC, she died a week ago; doctors just kept her hanging on until now...

Anyway, I'm more grateful that her pain is over more than sad. I had some time to get used to the idea, and while yes, tears came to my eyes while typing this, I'm basically okay.

Doesn't mean I don't appreciate youse guys though.

* hugs Illanae, Bajah, Leeasa, and everyone else who's been kind during this time as appropriate

Ryuujin
posted 01-13-2002 10:37:25 AM
Sorry for your loss.
Niklas
hay guys whats going on in this title?
posted 01-13-2002 10:40:33 AM
Darius!
Pancake
posted 01-13-2002 10:52:48 AM
Bleh, that sucks .
Ja'Deth Issar Ka'bael
I posted in a title changing thread.
posted 01-13-2002 11:08:42 AM
I'm glad it's done, Mighti-Mouse, and that she's free.
Lyinar's sweetie and don't you forget it!*
"All those moments will be lost in time, like tears in rain. Time to die. -Roy Batty
*Also Lyinar's attack panda

sigpic courtesy of This Guy, original modified by me

Densetsu
NOT DRYSART
posted 01-13-2002 11:24:34 AM
Least she's gona to a better place, Mightion.

Sorry for your loss. Go forth, Shiny Pailadin! Be Strong!

I was in the Virgin Islands once. I met a girl, we ate lobster, drank piƱa coladas. At sunset, we made love like sea otters. That was a pretty good day. Why couldn't I get that day over, and over?
greykittytwilight
As sands through the hourglass...
posted 01-13-2002 11:26:46 AM
*gives Might a special foxy outta the boxy hug*
..And the waitress is practicing politics.
As a buisness man slowly gets stoned.
Yes, they're sharing a drink they call Loneliness.
but its better then drinking alone.
leckzilla!
Squeak!
posted 01-13-2002 12:59:13 PM
*leckie hugs Mightion* sorry to hear about it dear.
Trent
Smurfberry Moneyshot
posted 01-13-2002 01:11:47 PM
quote:
And I was all like 'Oh yeah?' and Mightion Defensor was all like:
Anyway, I'm more grateful that her pain is over more than sad. I had some time to get used to the idea, and while yes, tears came to my eyes while typing this, I'm basically okay.

I understand this, I had the same feelings when my grandparents and my dad passed on, I was/still am, very upset that they are gone from my life, but also glad they are not suffering anylonger.

Malbi
posted 01-13-2002 01:14:58 PM
I think we should get together and make a plan to help Mightion laugh and feel better.
Laughter is the best medicine.
Remember Mightion as your friends we are with you.
I Didnt ask to be Secretary of Balloon Doggies, the Balloon Doggies demanded it!
Lyinar Ka`Bael
Are you looking at my pine tree again?
posted 01-13-2002 03:10:53 PM
*hugs the Mighty Paladin of Light*


Lyinar Ka`Bael, Piney Fresh Druidess - Luclin

Mortious
Gluttonous Overlard
posted 01-13-2002 03:14:15 PM
Sorry to hear about that.

I'm not sure if my Grandma (on my father's side) will last much longer, she's been very sick lately. Both of my blood Grandfathers are already gone.

Kloie
tunactsunamooon
posted 01-13-2002 03:21:14 PM
Kloie hugs Mightion.
KaLourin
Illanae's Stooge!
posted 01-14-2002 08:29:14 AM
*gives Mightion a manly hug*

Lost my own grandmother this past November. Believe me when I say I feel for ya.

Dont make me slap you so hard your bucket spins around, and around,and stops sideways,thus confusing you, and making you run about London wearing your bucket, a g-string, and carrying a stick,smacking the ground while yelling "MAGICALLY DELICIOUS! MAGICALLY FUCKING DELICIOUS!"- {Tal} to Mortious
Hebrew 9:3- 'And the Lord said unto me, "Dude, there isn't a K in covenant."' - Snoota

This beer drops trou and fucks your mouth with pure hoppy goodness. - Karnaj
Dead Tired
Is usually a girl
posted 01-14-2002 09:27:50 AM
My condolences.

*Bows head*

Katjya
Kelveron's Kitten
posted 01-14-2002 11:21:09 AM
Katjya hugs Mightion tightly, kissing him lightly on the cheek.

I'm sorry to hear of your loss, but I'm glad your grandmother isn't suffering any longer. I'm sure she'll be watching over you now as your own guardian angel.

Katjya Sylvertongue
Young Shadowknight and Proud Owner of her own (_|_)
Tarissa Treerunner
Mid-life Crisis Druid of House Avendur
Caanis Lupus
Rub me?
posted 01-14-2002 01:52:08 PM
Man it is never easy to lose family. Lost my Grandmother on Dec 23rd 7 years back. I was also glad that she didn't have to suffer anymore. Brain cancer...she had gone thru kemo and told her she had a few years to go after said treatment. She went from worse to horrible...and rather quickly. They had to put her in the hospital from the amount of pain she was in and not being able to eat. My Mother, Aunt, and Uncle went up to help out my Grandfather around the house one weekend...had to work that weekend and no one could cover what I had to do. My Mother called me from the hospital at about 11pm or so and asked if I wanted someone to come and drive me up(about 2 hour drive one way) and she said "I think she is holding on to see you." I was so pissed and sad at the same time. Not because I had to work and not be there but because she was still suffering. I told my Mother to let her know that I love her and it is ok to go.
At this point my Grandmother is in so much pain that they had her on some kinda painkiller vaporizer system. But when my Mother told her that I was not gonna make her wait just for me to show up, she smiled and shortly after she passed away...

Since then Christmas has not been a good holiday for us. I know my Mother, Aunt and Uncle took it way harder than me. Also went to see my Grandfather this past Christmas and I am pretty sure he is not gonna make it to this year's.

So some of us are there with you and understand how you feel...it doesn't make it hurt any less but you are not alone.

Take care man.

The Last Strider
I will die alone
posted 01-14-2002 03:24:00 PM
*claps Might on the back* I'm sorry, man. She lived a full life, and now she's in paradise.
"We have listened to you speak since the dawn of time, and we have learned to imatoot you exarktly."-The Simpsons

Necromancer: How DARE you imply that I was involved in a rude act with my undead servant! I will flay the flesh from your bones! I will summon a thousand maggot-ridden corpses to gnaw your flesh! I will trap your soul in-
Ghoul: My ass hurts.

Black
The Outlaw Torn
posted 01-14-2002 03:44:43 PM
Sorry to hear that, Mightion. My condolances.

Glad to hear she's at peace.



Time was never on my side.
So on I wait my whole lifetime.

Cap'n Elethi
I'm too sexy for my shirt, too sexy for my shirt...
posted 01-14-2002 04:01:38 PM
Elethi pats Mightion on the shoulder.

Sorry about that pal. I'm sure she's proud of you.

Elethi Rian, A Man Of Many Talents
Pvednes
Lynched
posted 01-14-2002 06:27:16 PM

My condolences. *gives Might a hug*

She's gone to a better place. Or she lives on in something else, depending on her beliefs.

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