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Azymyth
Not gay; just weird
posted 04-29-2002 04:27:00 PM
Please answer the following question from the following and explain why.

Do you like public speaking (that is giving speeches in front of people)?
A) Yes.
B) No.
C) Like... speaking in front of people?
D) If I answer, will you shut up and die?!

Remember to explain why. Thank you.

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Kirane
Pancake
posted 04-29-2002 04:28:12 PM
B

I'm always so shy and nervous, but I useally do decently.

Tristan
Vidi, vici, veni.
Nae's Stooge
posted 04-29-2002 04:28:33 PM
A) Yes.

Whay can I say, I'm a ham.

Veni, vidi, vici
Mr. Duck
Likes to ____!
posted 04-29-2002 04:29:29 PM
C

I rarely talk, so that gives me bad experience when talking with people

[ 04-29-2002: Message edited by: Mr. Duck ]

Delphi Aegis
Pancake
posted 04-29-2002 04:29:47 PM
I'd love to act, in say, a play by shakespeare, but I dont memorize well. I'd have to spend hour upon hour with Juliet, memming my lines
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Azrael Heavenblade
Damn Dirty Godmoder
posted 04-29-2002 04:29:53 PM
A. Yes, when I know what I'm talking about, and have a receptive audience. Would prefer to have a speech prepared, but I can do improv just fine. I don't really get stage fright, except for some butterflies before I go up, but once I start typically I'm fine, in fact, I prefer acting to speech-making
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Vorago
A completely different kind of Buckethead
posted 04-29-2002 04:29:57 PM
2) No.

I can do it fine, won the city-wide speech competition a few times
But I absolutely hate it

Completely

Emily
Why's everybody always hittin on me?
posted 04-29-2002 04:30:37 PM
A.)

But only if I'm reading something that I feel represents me well or that I can relate to... Like, if I read my poetry to the class, for example. Sometimes I'm a little shy, but if I'm reading something I can relate to, I usually read it with feeling/confidence, and have no problem doing so, no matter who is in the audience.

Should've done something, but I've done it enough
By the way your hands were shaking
Rather waste some time with you

Should've said something, but I've said it enough
By the way my words were faded
Rather waste some time with you...

Trent
Smurfberry Moneyshot
posted 04-29-2002 04:34:46 PM
D
Suddar Williams
SUDAR WILAMS
posted 04-29-2002 04:36:35 PM
I hate public speaking with a passion, though I CAN do it well (or so I thought I could). I rarely fuck up while reading, but I'm way way too shy to be doing it. I remember one time in 7th grade I had to stand up in front of my class and read some stupid thing to them; the assignment was an "election speech" for presidency...of the world. In the future. We had a choice of doing what we actually thought the world would be like at that time, or we could be creative with it for drama. I chose the dramatization.

Now, I got an A on it, so obviously I didn't do badly with it, but jesus it was the scariest thing I'd done in my entire life. I nearly fainted and I'm sure my voice wasn't exactly the most solid thing in the world. But I did well enough for an A, so eh.

Mod
Pancake
posted 04-29-2002 04:37:29 PM
Depends. If I'm supposed to talk about a subject, and I'm not 100% sure that I know what the heck I am doing I get pretty shy.

If I'm sure of my knowledge of the subject at hand, I don't have any problems whatosever.

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Drysart
Pancake
posted 04-29-2002 04:46:54 PM
quote:
Azymyth had this to say about Captain Planet:
Please answer the following question from the following and explain why.

Do you like public speaking (that is giving speeches in front of people)?
A) Yes.


As long as I'm prepared and know what I'm talking about. I love being seen as an authority on something. I also used to be on-air talent at a #1 rated radio station, so it's not like I'm concerned about how I sound.

Azymyth
Not gay; just weird
posted 04-29-2002 04:47:38 PM
Forgot to mention, this is for a speech I'm giving so yeah, please answer and give reasons.
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Suddar Williams
SUDAR WILAMS
posted 04-29-2002 04:51:43 PM
Oh, sorry...reasons.

I just...don't like being such a center of attention. I even moreso do not like people being uninterested because that means it sounds boring. It's an insecurity thing; I can't tell myself "don't worry, you sound fine" even if I know I do. I take in everybody's reactions. And while I realize that a 7-8th grade audience isn't the best for attention span, I can't help it.

[ 04-29-2002: Message edited by: Suddar Williams ]

King Parcelan
Chicken of the Sea
posted 04-29-2002 05:06:57 PM
I love Public Speaking, whether it be speeches, arguing, or acting.

I'm smart enough to know what I'm talking about during speeches.

My wit is sharp enough to shoot down the opponent in an argument.

I have the charisma to make people love me on stage.

And I'm funnier than a wildebeest fighting the Pope on PS2.

Agent A
Underpowered on Purpose
posted 04-29-2002 05:08:53 PM
B) I don't like to but I have to. I'm the president of the Home Ec. club and the teacher forces me to. I don't like people having to look at me for a long period of time. Plus I think my voice is really stupid and when I get nervous I start to studder. Sometimes I start rubbing my eyes which end up with me loosing a contact which is not good at all.

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Comrade Snoota
Communist
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posted 04-29-2002 05:09:03 PM
I'm completely indifferent to public speaking, but I'm great at it when I have to do it.
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LordVladdDracul

posted 04-29-2002 05:12:12 PM
quote:
Comrade Snoota thought this was the Ricky Martin Fan Club Forum and wrote:
I'm completely indifferent to public speaking, but I'm great at it when I have to do it.
I plot revenge on you as we speak...

Ruvie's Alt
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posted 04-29-2002 05:16:59 PM
C. I rarely speak at all, mostly because I never really have anything to talk about. There's also stage fright, and all that other crap.

In my opinion, it's far easier to write or speak with voice chat.

Falaanla Marr
I AM HOT CHIX
posted 04-29-2002 05:17:00 PM
quote:
LordVladdDracul had this to say about Punky Brewster:
[QUOTE]Comrade Snoota thought this was the Ricky Martin Fan Club Forum and wrote:
[qb]I'm completely indifferent to public speaking, but I'm great at it when I have to do it.

[/QB][/QUOTE]


HOLY FUCKING SHIT WHERE DID YOU COME FROM.

As for Azy's question -- A if i know WTF im talking about, B if i dont (or dont feel confident i can BS my way through)

Sentow, Maybe
Pancake
posted 04-29-2002 05:22:52 PM
B.

First of all, in person, I'm very inarticulate. It's a lot easier to be witty and insightful in text, ya?

But more importantly, I get very stagefright. I believe it's because subconsciously I'm very concerned about how people think of me, and I'm deathly afraid of being thought of poorly. Used to get picked on at school unmercifully, blah blah, what else is new. Anyway, that's the way it is.

Though like Drysart, I love it when people consider me an authority on something. Being to able to know what I'm talking about inside and out is a really cool feeling to me.

[EDIT] T-t-typo!

[EDIT 2] On a random note, although I don't like being the center of attention, having a deep voice like I do makes it hard not to be, ya? Oh, the irony... damn you, O. Henry!

[ 04-29-2002: Message edited by: Sentow ]

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Ferret
Poing! Poing!
posted 04-29-2002 05:44:33 PM
A

I'm insane.

Karnaj
Road Warrior Queef
posted 04-29-2002 06:01:11 PM
A)

I have no shame.

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Caela
Crazed Ex-Angel
posted 04-29-2002 06:43:04 PM
B) NO

I hate speaking in front of people, I am horribly shy. If I am prepared and/or know what I'm talking about, I can get through it, but it's never a pleasant experiance.

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Dark Elf Pimp
posted 04-29-2002 06:46:32 PM
Speaking in front of people? Not really. I like speaking with a lot of people, but if I say something stupid when I'm the only one talking, it comes out much more than not. That's it in a nutshell.
Kinanik
Upset about being titless
posted 04-29-2002 07:17:49 PM
No, I don't feel comfortabble expressing myself to others.
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Lyinar Ka`Bael
Are you looking at my pine tree again?
posted 04-29-2002 09:10:54 PM
C

and B

I despise it

[ 04-29-2002: Message edited by: Lyinar ]


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Ja'Deth Issar Ka'bael
I posted in a title changing thread.
posted 04-29-2002 09:11:45 PM
A. Yes

Though your options pose an interesting bit of humor. If people are terminally shy, will they stand up in front of others to admit it? Probably not.

And I enjoy public speaking. Got an A in my public speaking course and my performance course. I'm generally fairly quiet, but get me going and I won't shut up, as the infamous DethEssays no doubt would indicate.

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Pancake
posted 04-29-2002 09:16:28 PM
c. im soo nervous if i have to talk to large groups formaly, its almost funny. ithough i am gettting better, i still hate pubblic speaking
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MorbId
Pancake
posted 04-29-2002 09:23:27 PM
B.

It's something I can do, but I don't like to. I think I liked it more before being exposed to mandatory classes telling me exactly how to do speaking right.

I didn't even do most of the negative behaviors, but now I get preoccupied thinking about not doing those things and find it harder to concentrate on my speech.

And, being fairly quiet normally, I feel like I'm shouting at the audience.

Vise the Stompy
Title now 100% ass free!
posted 04-29-2002 09:31:42 PM
B-Whenever I speak in public it tends to end badly for me and any small animals in the genral area.
Kloie
tunactsunamooon
posted 04-29-2002 09:36:45 PM
Eh...I'm not really sure where I stand on it. If it's say, a speech, yeah, I can do that. I don't write speeches without doing some research, usually, so I usually have some idea what I'm talking about.

Another thing is acting. I used to have to memorize lots of monologues for Drama. Acting gives me a HUGE rush--I absolutely adore it. Unfortunately, I had to quit Drama after the first semester. One, I was having problems with She-Who-Shall-Not-Be-Named during first lunch, and two, I was the only person who didn't join the class because I thought it'd be easy. (And this drove me absolutely insane--especially when the teacher bitched out Kimberly for not having her monologue ready, and telling her that she had the most talent out of all of us...)

Wasn't always okay with public speaking, though. I had to read a story I wrote for my English class in 7th grade. I almost had a panic attack, and read it so fast that no one had any idea what I was saying.

Edit: To better explain the 'quitting Drama' thing, the teacher was playing favorites and it was affecting my grade. Kimberly's a damn good actress, but she only got good grades because she kissed ass. She hardly ever actually did any work because she was a lazy fuck.

[ 04-29-2002: Message edited by: Kloie ]

Bloodsage
Heart Attack
posted 04-29-2002 09:47:30 PM
A. I enjoy public speaking. I've spoken before audiences as large as just under 1000 or so. I've written speeches others have delivered to much larger audiences.

Don't act, though. My sense of self is just too strong.

Why do I like to speak in front of people? Because so many others are afraid to--being not only willing and able, but good at, something others are terrified of is a fast track to opportunity. Additionally, public speaking represents power.

And it's all about the power, baby. See the .sig for further details.

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Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven.

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DS
Perma-Newbie
posted 04-29-2002 09:52:15 PM
A is me!

Public speaking has become an obsession with me. Religious member with the debate team.. prepared speeches actually make me do worse, i've become so obsessed with improv speeches. I'm a charismatic and convincing speaker.

Maradon!
posted 04-29-2002 10:56:00 PM
A.

Which is incredibly bizarre, since I put on rather good presentations and speeches, but when it comes to one-on-one or one-on-several personal relations I completely and totally suck. I only have a few close friends, and I'm horribly reclusive around everybody I don't know very well.

Pvednes
Lynched
posted 04-29-2002 11:38:51 PM
quote:
Maradön? Model 2000 was programmed to say:
A.

Which is incredibly bizarre, since I put on rather good presentations and speeches, but when it comes to one-on-one or one-on-several personal relations I completely and totally suck. I only have a few close friends, and I'm horribly reclusive around everybody I don't know very well.



Same here, really.

Gikk
SCA babe!!!
posted 04-30-2002 01:07:46 AM
B. I get incredably nervous, do fine, then am incredably nervous about how I did.

Rolin
Pancake
posted 04-30-2002 09:01:43 AM
I used to hate public speaking. Every time I had to give a presentation, I got nervous. It was even worse if I had to present on a topic I was not completely fluent with. It's the perfectionist in me. I hate making mistakes, can't read fast enough to present off flash cards, and I always feel that people are going to judge me on my performance.

Oddly, any time I do have to speak publically on a topic I'm even remotely familiar with, I seem to do well. I've found a few tricks to control my nerves, and it seems that I have a talent for pulling off the improbable when I'm in a tight spot. For example, I had to make a presentation for a group project in a Software Engineering course. Our nominated speaker had to cancel last minute, so I had about 12 hours notice. I only made one half of a trial run, and studdered through it before the professor showed up and we had to do the actual presentation. I looked at the professor, gave a quick glance at the screen to reset the powerpoint presenation for our live run, then managed to do the whole thing all professional-like.

During college, I spent a semester as a TA (teaching assistant) with a recitiation (mini-class) section to conduct. That, despite any fears I might have had, was a fun experience. With an enrollment of 28 people, my lowest attendance for the semester was 19, and my highest was 47 (no kidding). I had borrowed the teaching technique from a professor I had my freshman year, and it went over unexpectedly well.

So, on the whole, it comes down to this. If it's a topic I know well, and I have some liberty to present it, then I enjoy the showing off aspect of public speaking. In all cases, it makes me nervous, so I try to avoid it on any topic where I'm not fluent.

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Callalron
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posted 04-30-2002 09:25:58 AM
I can speak in public and when I know my subject matter, I've been told I'm quite good at it. I even used to teach two blocks of instruction at the Air Force's Fighter Weapons School and gave numerous impomptu "dog and pony" briefings to every from the Vice Chief of Staff of the Air Force on down.

Left to my own devices I'd just as soon not talk to anyone I don't have to. Partly from being an anti-social bastage and partly from the fact that I've always been a "man of few words" as the saying goes.

Callalron
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Pancake
posted 04-30-2002 09:36:14 AM
quote:
Callalron Model 2000 was programmed to say:
Left to my own devices I'd just as soon not talk to anyone I don't have to. Partly from being an anti-social bastage and partly from the fact that I've always been a "man of few words" as the saying goes.

And partly because they can't tell if your drunk if you're not breathing in front of them?

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